A Question for single people...

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Originally Posted by atomik_sprout

I take offense to that. I'm a father and my son's mother and I haven't been together for quite some time now. I even had a relationship with someone who knew full well I was a father, she loved (well actually still does love) the sh*t out of my son! Every girl I know gets all mushy over the fact that I have a kid. Were I to try to find someone else to start a new relationship with (highly doubtful, I plan on stayin' single for a good minute), I'd expect them to respect me and my son just as she did.

Just because you have a kid, that doesn't mean it's the end of your single life, nor is it the end of the world!! But you wouldn't know that would you? You've no clue what life is like do you? Do you have step-parents? If you do, then you're a hippocrite.

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hey...don't judge me yet that early. yes, it's the end of my single life but that doesn't mean that's the end of my life but it's the beginning of another life, family life. if i might have a child then it's my responsible as a father and also to accept and love the mother. and i have no absolutely have a problem with that, ok? can't blame you to respond to me like that, by the way. besides i love kids and women and i always wanted to have a family but yet fate is somehow against me but i have no problem getting a date though. but i just don't have that certain moment to realize that i have found that certain person.

trying to make the female stick with me. I am an ugly dude, Tis going to be a hard season of hunting... if you catch my drift.

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Originally Posted by warrchief

trying to make the female stick with me. I am an ugly dude, Tis going to be a hard season of hunting... if you catch my drift.

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here's an advice, it's not mostly of how you look, it's how you make yourself look good and it works.

I have a hard time trusting people especially girls, so i usually prefer to stay friends i have my defenses up all the time i try not to let anyone too close; if a girl ever asks me about my situation i say im in a relationship even if im not lol just to get away yeah.

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Originally Posted by warrchief

trying to make the female stick with me. I am an ugly dude, Tis going to be a hard season of hunting... if you catch my drift.

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dude if you don't think of your self as nice looking, then try to make girls laugh. girls like guys who can make them laugh, and it also helps if you have one hobby they can relate to, like a sport, or reading interesting books, or drawing (video games and other nerdy stuff doesn't really apply)

I have been in relationships before, but. It's not so much that I'm afraid that they might ending up dumping me, but commitment hasn't always been my forte. I've gone out with girls that have told me before that they liked me. I'm not really picky and judgmental about who I go out with, but sometimes I try to reconsider my options. I think the problem is that I'm too nice. Sometimes, I go out with girls who I don't really have feelings for, but I respect as a person. I always think to myself if I am doing the right thing. I think there's something wrong with me.

It's almost like I don't want to be committed to something for too long. For instance, the thought of marriage terrifies me because that means I won't be able to do as many things as I want anymore. Maybe it's just because I am a bit still too immature. Actually, it just might be the thought of commitment is something I don't like thinking about.

Despite my own judgment, I do regret the times I agreed to date someone. Sometimes, I thinking I'm falsely leading them on about how I feel with some of the girls I've been with before. I don't know what to do. My parents are expecting me to get married, but I don't really think it's the right thing for me.

Well... My biggest fear is if i love some and they don't love me back! i hate that! And, my other fear is if i put all my faith into a person i love and then, i find out that they never liked me at all... I been through these kind of conflicts before...(which is really sad.) soooo, i try 2 forget it and move on!

my biggest fear is that my girl will grow bored of me and find some one else. Like i spend all my time and money just to be with her, and she blows me off because i grew tiresome.