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    Re: Should you stay in a loveless relationship?

    simply staying in for the sake of one's sanity is never a good idea, as the guilt can and eventually will overtake you.

    It's pointless to stay in a relationship when the love has been sucked dry. No one ends up happy and it may turn violent. The best course of action is to end ity, and who knows, perhaps your ex will still be a friend.
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    Re: Should you stay in a loveless relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by NeoDeath90 View Post
    simply staying in for the sake of one's sanity is never a good idea, as the guilt can and eventually will overtake you.

    It's pointless to stay in a relationship when the love has been sucked dry. No one ends up happy and it may turn violent. The best course of action is to end ity, and who knows, perhaps your ex will still be a friend.
    Actually there is a point to it if you do not mind me answering your saying, my understanding may be limited but my relationship of love is not limited because you can choose whom to date and also how you will deal with the ups and downs from that particular relationship.

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    Re: Should you stay in a loveless relationship?

    I agree it is unfair for a person to claim they can not function without another person. A person should never make their partner feel obligated, pressured, or forced. But if that is the only thing still keeping them "together" it must have never have been true love.

    I do believe in love so true that you would stay through anything. You would stay through the depression. Cancer. Aids. You would stay if they were burned over 90% percent of their body. Or if they gained 300 lbs. You would stay... not because you are forced... but becuase you love them.

    The problem with so many people is that they percieve love to be all sunshine and flowers. But it is more than that, it is a commitment. Simular to how a mother loves a child without conditions, so should we love those we chose as partners. It seems more and more the minute people feel uncomfortable... and things start to get difficult.... that means you should jump ship. Well, if thats the case, if you feel you can do that... you never really had love with that person. It was lust, adoration, admiration, infatuation... It wasn't love.

    Think of how often you've been hard to live with, or been down and out... Would you want the people who claimed to love you to bail? If you had a physical or psychological illness would you want to be deemed unloveable? I've been the person who was left because I was suicidal, pregnant and hormonal. If you can leave someone for such simple reasons you have no right to claim you ever loved them.

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    Re: Should you stay in a loveless relationship?

    what is the point if your partner find out. woulden't he/she be more unstable if he/she found you cheating then breaking up with that person in the first place, if you did wanted to break up. you cant keep a lie forever can you
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    Re: Should you stay in a loveless relationship?

    no, they'll soon anger each other, and none of it will ever be pretty. if you truely no longer love someone..what's the point? its better to get it over with, than to simply find out about it later and save the pain. then they can hopefully peacefully end it.

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    Re: Should you stay in a loveless relationship?

    Well there are certain amount of persuasion that can allow someone to know or to find out who is cheating on who and who is the most responsible to disrespect the relationship that these people are going through. Any other unaccessiblity life would come and crumble to bits even though i may not make sense into what i am saying is that you shoould be careful into the actions being created by whom ever.

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    Re: Should you stay in a loveless relationship?

    It will not be fair to both parties to stay in a relationship that is loveless so to speak. if all else does not work then i say a long talk is needed.
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    Re: Should you stay in a loveless relationship?

    So we all pretty much agree that staying in an unhealthy relationship is bad. But we

    need explanations people! I learned the hard way that staying in a relationship that you

    don't wanna be in out of pity is foolish and self-destructive. But what goes through your

    mind when your trying to leave and that person is threatening to commit suicide if you

    don't stay?

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