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    Re: Shyness: How do you deal with it?

    i used to be shy myself but then i came to the conclusion that people i dont know or respect mean nothing to me so i shouldnt care what they think of me and do and say what ever i dont know maybe thats why i always get the girls i dont like o well thats another topic in its self

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    Re: Shyness: How do you deal with it?

    U think so miroku? weird....i get shyer as i grew older... @.@ sheesh... im weird am i?

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    Re: Shyness: How do you deal with it?

    Kenshinzen i know how it feels to be shy;i'm not used to talk with people,in the real world, because i'm introverted and very,very shy.well i had to go to a psychologist to get over this(but i'm still not over it ).i think you should try to find out what sort of things does she likes talk to her(maybe even ask her if she likes you)send her a poem or a letter(someone else said this,i know ).if you're shy when only when she's around,well you should try to talk to her when you're with her and other friends,this could help.

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    Re: Shyness: How do you deal with it?

    Along the lines of what AT#1 said, I think you just have to take this girl off of that pedestal you put her on. We're all just people, and there's no reason to get worked up. When you see her just think, "isn't she lucky that i'm about to talk to her". It may seem arrogant, but people are so much easier to deal with when you approach them thinking you're above them. This isn't a great way to live at all times, but for a brief moment, it can be used to overcome shyness.

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    Re: Shyness: How do you deal with it?

    I have a whole tactic in getting over shyness, somehow I've managed to... a little bit, though the problem still exists but not in such a high level.

    Firstly, believe you can do it, you can get over it, dress so that you would be comfortable, be comfortable do everyting you can do to feel good and not ugly and stuff...

    Scondly, you have to start talking where it's not that importand to leave a good impression- in school, answering to questions (you have to anyway os it's double 'income' ^^ lol), I, for instance, took any chance to talk in front of the class and slowly got better both in English and in not being so shy. Talk more to anyone you can (just choose people of witch opinion you don't care about much). Eh, and in the ed you'll do it, believe me, maybe it could take some time, but... you'll do it if you really want to and are determinated to and believe that you can do it.

    Hmm... maybe meditate? Yea... that could help too... you have to be in harmony inside of you ^^ lol


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    Re: Shyness: How do you deal with it?

    I'm actually pretty shy, but i tell people when i first meet them. So they usually help me out of it. it gets annoying but i cant really help it.

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    Re: Shyness: How do you deal with it?

    I personally don't socialize much. But it's essential to have communication skills to survive in the real world, let alone bagging yourself a date.

    I suggest taking up a part-time/casual job (Eg. Customer service) or joining a Club. It would help to interact with and talk to different people.

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    Re: Shyness: How do you deal with it?

    Well, there is a simple solution....I don't know if you like it but MOST of the AO people here may agree. ALCOHOL! ! ! Remember that you have to be 21 in america, and drink responsible. I know that it's not the best of ways to handle it but it's an ice breaker i think. Makes you loosen your grip and talk. Drink with your friends that you have and head out to a bar. Play some pool, games, OH...I know....play some drinking games and then invite some of the girls around you to come in a play. Of course you may have to buy them a few drinks but it gets you to talk. And if you become a smooth talker....who knows...you may be thanking me for something else! Good luck!

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