i think that teens need to learn to use condoms so that they dont have kids when they are 14..ect I mean think about it how are u gunna explain that to ur kid that ur thirty and they are 15...1 word.....awkward
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Babygirl... Listen!!! Teen pregnacy isn't bad, but it isn't good if u get what I am saying... U have your whole life in front of u... Take care of yourself first & plan for your future... Since u like kids be a pediatrician, social worker, counselor, pre-k teacher, or anything of that nature... Establish your foundation, plus what about the father of your child..? Wouldn't u want to be in love a get married & all that... Or are u just look'n for a donor..? U have way more than that to live for... Your life!!! U don't need a baby to validate your existence... Most ppl who consider pregnacy at a young age want someone to love & someone to love them back... I would tell them love themselves & overcome anyone who has put hurt in their lives... But I might be wrong with u maybe u just want a child to better your way of life... I thought that at 1 point in my life, but I thought to myself how can I take care of a baby when I barely can take care of myself (didn't have my stuff together)... But I also knew if I had 1 I would do whatever it took for my child to be well taken care of... (That is when I didn't want to work, but I thought a baby would be my motivation cause I have someone to take care of other than myself...) Yea' I know krazy plan... But that is what I thought... Well what I am really trying to say is make a decision that is going to better u... Cause in the end it is your decision.
And that would be even more akward since the child proberly starts calling her grandma when they learn talking, can you imagine that bieng in your thirtys and being could grandma.
i think it would be good cause 40 years from now retirement homes will be younger then what they should be and life insurance would be cheap...lol wow did i just give dumb ass reasons to have a kid...o well...anyway i personally dont want to have a kid till im economically fit to have a kid.
i think that would be funny as hell cause you can sound all old and not be oldOriginally Posted by gigi2005
Do to others as you see fit
Having kids at a young age, even before you hit your twenties is just plain stupid. Especially if you aren't economically fit to have one, and/or you cannot even support yourself. Who cares about the retirement homes. A child shouldn't be brought into this world and not be able to eat, bathe, play with toys.. basically be a kid.
Same for the "Parent". The teen should live their life as a teen, seeing as how they only have one time do so. Getting pregnant at a young age is foolish, and there is no point to it. It does work out in some cases, but those were unexpected pregnancies. Not, "Oh let's have a kid because it's the cool thing to do".
In addition to Wolf's post, most teens don't realize how crazy it is to handle a child without even experiencing the whole world.
If the teens are parents then their result is the combination of lust and plain dumb shit = kid.