Thread: Teenagers Avoiding Parents?

Originally Posted by RayMe

Well i dont think its always is like you say... the problem is.. some parents don't understand thier child anymore.. well most don't lol things these days are so much different than before.. all the things we are going through... are very much different than they have.. and the way they were raised should not really be applied 100% in this time... they should scan the environment more...find a way to communicate and understand their offspring's...

And you know why they don't understand them? Their too wrapped up in there own lives or just don't care enough to get to know them. Know wonder they avoid them.

Originally Posted by dark1angel

Well i can agree part of it, but i thought that all people has different genes into what is going on with their self-esteem, appearence into the relationship with the attributes given by the parents.


Well Ghattenpaw i can tell you that what you raised your children did learn tons of things that can help them in the future even though raising one is really a big responsibility, even though everything turns sour. I have done the same thing here on what you mentioned, had experienced it and well let me tell you something about it; it really turn everything in my life a living nightmare, i could not do nothing with freedom nor have an everyday conversation with friends. It is not that personal with me and neither with everyone else beacause it is really natural for me to be away from my folks for only getting out my anger out of my system to just not hurt no one near me. Well in this present time i had rough times just getting out of my mess that turn everything against me i just wished i knew that there was something wrong with me earlier, well anyways got sidetracked on that.
When i see teens do these kind of things on their parents i just simply get all weary of the future on my parents and cannot bare what i will do without them.


I can barely notice this saying from anyone about having teens jsut avoiding teens to be only a natural thing. For me it would be not entirely natural but only when a teen gets angry or frustrated about the parent then it is perfectly natural, but when a teen just walks away from them for say about a month then it is not normal because there is some kind of disorder or syndrome about the body being unatural to stick with the parents. Have you ever seen an issue like this back at home near you?

Well it was a figure of speech. I meant it as only that almost all teens avoid their parents....but thanks for taking it so literally.

Well there are only about 20% of teens that feel that bad or just depressed about leaving their parents alone in a world that it is not belonged in a society that work with them.

And i am trying to understand into people are trying to tell me which is right and the wrong that is being commited outside of this society and we have to respect into not being involved right?

Well, I suppose so. I belive we act on how we ant to act. So if teens want to avoind thier parents....let em

but what of this idea that they do not want to become what they see in their parents? they do not want to live the same life and not the same time. you have only one time to do things for those thing will never have a chance to be remade. if you are talking to someone you love think and think what your words might do to them how they will change their life and what they think. you might want to help them but mybe your are makeing them do things they never wanted to do. just think you never will be able to remake you life you only get one chance and do not try to destroy another by trying to make them do something or love something. do not have them do something because you allways wanted to. that is the problem...

I haven't been avoiding my parents, but the reason for teens avoiding their parents is that they want more independence.

i never avoiding my parents i love them ... and for the teenagers umm i think they avoiding their parents because they want to be free and no one tell them don't do this or do this ... teenagers think that their parents controlling them and they can't live their life freely and like the way they want ... =^_^=