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    Topsy Turvy

    Would you prefer a wild, passionate, turbulent relationship or a calm, warm, consistent one? Why?

    I used to be attracted to wild passionate turbulent types but now that i'm older i'd like a calm warm consistent partner because then i could have a moment's peace.

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    Re: Topsy Turvy

    I think it is important to have a balance.

    Too much turbulence.... means alot of arguing, bickering, and unneeded drama. BUT, I think wild passion is important. To be able to allow those throws of passion to take place is vital...

    I also think consistancy is important as well, but if things are always just -calm- I think it could make things a bit boring. I personally would think my partner had a lack of an emotional connection if there was never turbulence.
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    Re: Topsy Turvy

    I prefer not wild but rather calm, warm, passionate relationships. I really don’t care for wild as that tends to draw in to much trouble and drama and I absolutely hate drama. I don’t mind consistency in a relationship but at the same time not to consistent that it starts to get overly predictable. Also I like calm, warm, and passionate relationships as thats the kind of guy I am so it fits my personality very easily.
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    Re: Topsy Turvy

    I agree with peach_follows

    If you have too much wild, passionate, and turbulence in the relationship it can be destroyed with arguing and things like that... just like if you have a calm warm consistent partner it could become boring and you'd end up not caring.. So me i'd like a little of both.
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    Re: Topsy Turvy

    Quote Originally Posted by Peach_follows View Post
    I think it is important to have a balance.

    Too much turbulence.... means alot of arguing, bickering, and unneeded drama. BUT, I think wild passion is important. To be able to allow those throws of passion to take place is vital...

    I also think consistancy is important as well, but if things are always just -calm- I think it could make things a bit boring. I personally would think my partner had a lack of an emotional connection if there was never turbulence.
    i personally agree with this.

    without evil there can be no good. yin and yang, really. In a relationship, this belief holds strong. With the calm, peaceful moments, there are the turbulent and wild ones.

    for instance, you and your sweetie could be cuddling one minute, sharing a nice warm cocoa, and after you are done, you go into a big pillow fight that ends with a night of love making. you see what i mean? Having this balance, as peach said, is essential for making the relationship last.

    just try to keep your wildness and turbulence on the positive and fun side, ok?
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    Re: Topsy Turvy

    Personally, I prefer a quiet, more intimate relationship.

    I've always been a more reserved person for as long as I can remember, and I've tried dating some people that were quite opposite of me before, thinking maybe opposites do attract. However, I only got a lot of uncomfortable moments out of that line of thinking, it's fine to be a bit spontaneous, but there needs to be limits, and I think the majority of the time I would rather spend just the two of us, watching a movie at home or something like that.

    Fighting does show you care, but I like to just be on the same page as my partner, if I can ever find someone that's pretty close to being like me - shares my interests, reservations, etc. - I think that would be my ideal partner.

    But I haven't found anyone who's just my blend of reservation and messed up mentality

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    Re: Topsy Turvy

    i agree with peach_follows
    have enough wildness to keep things interresting, but calming when you dont have the engery. Its not tiring and annoying, or boring and dull.
    Its alright to want to be laid back, but when you have that spurt of engery to go out and be crazy, its nice to be with someone who can go anolg with you.

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    Re: Topsy Turvy

    Peach_follows have the right idea. Having a wild life of a while and then a calm quiet life after ward. We humans do not have an unlimited supply of energy so a balance life is good
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