Thread: Topsy Turvy

I agree with Peach! ^_^ there needs tto be a balance...
However... me personaly I like a really adventurous relationship. For me life in general has its meaning on adventure. A realtionship has to have advenrture to keep itself alive and it has to have calm and warm moments so the relationship gets ready for the next adventure ^_~... I have a passionate heart.
When I say adventure I mean to keep the spark always going on... this is not fighting nor arguing all the time whatsoever. But it does mean to fight for each other always and never take anything for granted...

I dunno, man. Every relationship I've been in has started off warm and consistent and has ended with enough turbulance to down thirteen airplanes at once.

It's hard for me to say what I want or prefer anymore. Maybe I don't want anything at all.

i love it wild, the wilder and more passionate the better, i don't care if we break up and then get back together 5 times in a month, if its hot, then i totally want it.

Originally Posted by sangogirl

i love it wild, the wilder and more passionate the better, i don't care if we break up and then get back together 5 times in a month, if its hot, then i totally want it.

That's why there for me needs to be a balance... in case it does not work... if it is too passionate then both of the persons will get hurt badly... and not only they loose a boyfriend/girlfriend... theyh end up loosing a good friend... and someone that shared with you very special moments.... ofr me everytime you spend with the one you love are precious moments and they are priceless. But if th etimes you spend with that person are only passionated itcan't get deeper.... ofr me only passion is the kind opf fire that lights up really fast and burns everything but after a little while it fades... and neves comes back up... a realtionship is way more than that. ^_^

Personally i do agree with peach follows but for me i've always needed a little bit extra in a relationship. And for me it's just wholesome fun. If i find the time i spend with them fun then i'm happy. having passion is great, but just as everyone else has said it can get out of hand. But being mellow is just way too boring.

All i want to do is just enjoy all the moments with my own sense of fun and humor thrown in. Why take things seriously if you can have fun instead?

Originally Posted by lebasiara

That's why there for me needs to be a balance... in case it does not work... if it is too passionate then both of the persons will get hurt badly... and not only they loose a boyfriend/girlfriend... theyh end up loosing a good friend... and someone that shared with you very special moments.... ofr me everytime you spend with the one you love are precious moments and they are priceless. But if th etimes you spend with that person are only passionated itcan't get deeper.... ofr me only passion is the kind opf fire that lights up really fast and burns everything but after a little while it fades... and neves comes back up... a realtionship is way more than that. ^_^

well some people will say that relationships have to have deep emotional connections, but truthfully i hate talking about my emotions, or getting really 'deep' with someone especially when i know that it ain't gonna last (i don't take relationships very far) so that's why i would want it to be as passionate as possible. and if the light fades and were not as passionate, then we can eighter see if there is more to the relationship or just break up. and it wouldn't hurt because the relationship would simply be superficial.

Originally Posted by sangogirl

well some people will say that relationships have to have deep emotional connections, but truthfully i hate talking about my emotions, or getting really 'deep' with someone especially when i know that it ain't gonna last (i don't take relationships very far) so that's why i would want it to be as passionate as possible. and if the light fades and were not as passionate, then we can eighter see if there is more to the relationship or just break up. and it wouldn't hurt because the relationship would simply be superficial.

In all honesty that does not sound like much of a relationship and sounds a bit... Selfish in a way. But what ever, to each his or her own.

Balance is what I want, as many people said before. I want to have a deep and passionate connection with some one on all levels. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. I want for use to have plans in our life, but to keep them vague and general to allow us to fly by the seat of our pants, this way we can be flexible with what ever life throws at us. Like taking the bit longer detour in life while still getting to where we want to be. This way there is consistency with out things getting stale.