When I said selfish I mean it in the way as its out of fear of hurting and or being heart. Thats completely understandable. But you know how its going to end and when, making it rather pointless uthere then using that person to temporarly fill your need of another. In short, they are not really much more then a filler and a tool. They are just a bandade... Now you are probably thinking... Why do I even care? The answer is that I dont like to see people having good things pass them by because of fear. And if you must know, there is a very good reason as to why that is with me. Any way, thats enough of me rattling cages and the last post I will make in this thread unless provoked.