Thread: Topsy Turvy

Originally Posted by desxms

I don't know if I am KNOWN or KNOWING... I have enough trouble just BEING.

Don’t feel too bad, it took me about 21 years to just figure out who I am and what I am capable of and to open my eyes to other possibilities. 19 years of dealing with my inner hell and demons, 2 years of blissful love and 3 months of torment to keep us from falling apart do to out side forces, and 4 months of recovering from the heart ach and self reflection as well as to where to go from here.
Some figure it out sooner then others. Just gota do a lot of self reflection and be the best person you can be. There are many ways in finding out who one really is and how to better them selves... I am always trying to better my self. There are countles ways of doing all of this.

... Any ways... I think we got completely side tracked.

Originally Posted by desxms

Would you prefer a wild, passionate, turbulent relationship or a calm, warm, consistent one? Why?

I used to be attracted to wild passionate turbulent types but now that i'm older i'd like a calm warm consistent partner because then i could have a moment's peace.

I agree with you. I used to love the wild passionate emotional roller coaster type relationships. I was attracted to total tragedy boys. Boys with problems that needed to be fixed and so on.

But now I'm grown up more. (See NOT an adult) and I prefer a more consistent warm and calm relationship. Although I do believe that a relationship can't survive without some sort of passion between the parties involved.