Thread: Understand the female

for most guys its the hole saying one thing
and meaning another thing that women do
i have never had this problem but i have seen it.

and another is that women think guys are
awesome mind readers an example of this is
i was talking to a friend just the oither day when his
gf cameup all angry and stuff it took her 30 minuts
to tell him a 1 minuts sentence becuase she said he should
have know if he loved and knew her so well.

i laughed a bit which didnt help much but aperantly
her and a lot of other girls just assume guys can read minds
so they shoiuldnt have to say anything .

those are 2 things

Originally Posted by HolderOfTheDarkChalice

for most guys its the hole saying one thing
and meaning another thing that women do
i have never had this problem but i have seen it.

and another is that women think guys are
awesome mind readers an example of this is
i was talking to a friend just the oither day when his
gf cameup all angry and stuff it took her 30 minuts
to tell him a 1 minuts sentence becuase she said he should
have know if he loved and knew her so well.

i laughed a bit which didnt help much but aperantly
her and a lot of other girls just assume guys can read minds
so they shoiuldnt have to say anything .

those are 2 things

Yes i guess the fact that a lot of women expect men to just magically read their minds XD the whole "you should know this by now!!!"
yes saying one thing and expecting the guy to read beyond what she said into the inner meaning of her words... does happen a lot XD like:
Girl-"I don't feel like talking right now, i just feel like being alone"
Guy-"ok. then i'll leave you be for a bit."
Girl-*gets mad*
guy-...wtf...
girl-(thoughts) he's supposed to hug me and ask me what's wrong, and even if i say "I don't wanna talk!" he's still supposed to ask how i feel!!! T.T
Guy-?????

Originally Posted by AnimeGeek

Yes i guess the fact that a lot of women expect men to just magically read their minds XD the whole "you should know this by now!!!"
yes saying one thing and expecting the guy to read beyond what she said into the inner meaning of her words... does happen a lot XD like:
Girl-"I don't feel like talking right now, i just feel like being alone"
Guy-"ok. then i'll leave you be for a bit."
Girl-*gets mad*
guy-...wtf...
girl-(thoughts) he's supposed to hug me and ask me what's wrong, and even if i say "I don't wanna talk!" he's still supposed to ask how i feel!!! T.T
Guy-?????

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA this is hillarious but it is SO TRUE!!!
I am a woman... and even sometimes I can barely understand myself.... anyways... we are not the only ones that cannot be understood... I think it goes both ways...

we don't understand guys because we "assume" we read the guys' mind and that we are allknowing about them and that they are... blah blah blah (ya know what we talk about gals!!)
men on the other side... they don't understand why we do what we do... and let's be real... sometimes we don't even know...

What? This whole saying one thing and doing another is something BOTH men AND women do. I've never thought of it as a gender-exclusive activity.......

I thiiiiiink that most women have a need to be taken care of. I reckon a lot of men like being independent, you know, they've got egos and they have to be tough and look out for themselves (and if I were a man I think I'd like that), but women..... nahhh. And sometimes it's pride that keeps a woman from just admitting that she needs company or consolation, and she ends up beating around the bush or generally being quite unreasonable about things. And.... yeah. I've talked to my guy friends about this before and they find it all quite baffling. ^^;;


And then there's that age-old question: "How the hell do they go on shopping for like five hours non-stop???????"

I don't know. I can do it, none of my male friends can (though I reckon some guys ARE shopaholics), and it's a question that has no proper answer. I mean, look, if guys can sit around playing DotA for hours on end (and many girls find this a mystery), why can't girls walk around and shop for hours on end? Same same, yeah?

To me...even though I am a female....I think that it is the guys that are complicated......I know it does sound weird....but I can't just seem to get them.....the way they think and the things that they do...
In my opinion..i think that the female is much more simpler than then male...I know.....I am a total weirdo....(don't kill me girls for my reply.......LOL)

yeah thta does make since though i never really though
ofmy self as the typ to just do something for hours
with out there being a reason becuase i find aimless walking
around or even playing games pointless unless your just board
which is steall an ok reason.

but i see your point blue but i still think more than not girls are worse about
this than guys even though guys do it as well its jsut girls are noticed more
and oif you think about thats probably a good thing since girls love attention.

but i will stop there before i get myself into trouble >.>

Originally Posted by blue_rebel

"How the hell do they go on shopping for like five hours non-stop???????"

Hey, men can do that too! Most I know would go mad if they had giftcards to stores like Best Buy and Fry's Electronics.

I think that the aspect of women that confuses men the most is... Alright, it's definitely not a common question, and I know I'm making a big generalization, but I'm guessing that the thing that can vex most men the most is the appeal of Boys Love, AKA Yaoi. Me, I'm a bit puzzled myself... I'm guessing it's just the men, their traits, and the things they do. Well, at least that's what I like about the genre, and the same goes with Girls Love for me too and I'm guessing quite a bunch of other GL fans.