AnimeGeek

Yes and most people fail to communicate, that's what most problems are about, mis communication. stuff like "oh well i though you were mad at me taht day for what i did last week".. when in reality it's not the case, a lot of time we tend to generalize what we don't know. So that's another big problem.

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FizzySid

My current relationship with the guy I love a painful amount is hanging from a thread right now. For the last month, we hadn't been talking about our problems and sharing things with eachother. I was all "You don't love me! You're so cold! Show me some affection!" And he was all "You can't force this kind of thing!" And ignoring my displays of love.
So last night we had a talk about it...
Apparently, I'd be talking about another friend of mine (Who happens to be a guy) a little too often, and he was beginning to become jealous, as such. He told me that he had switched his emotions off a little, due to fear of me leaving him...
Though I explained that we needed to talk about these things, that I didn't have feelings for my friend, and that I loved him, would do anything for him etc... After such a long period of us not getting on, he's taking time out to decide whether or not he wants to continue this relationship...
On that note, I think the main problem between men and women is communication. Guys deal with their emotions- primarily by blocking them out, whereas girls become upset and clingy, and don't understand.

crimson

okay... heres a simple thing that i want you guys out there with girlfriends to always remember... it's a simple yeat very true and real thing to watch out for...

don't ever forget that... i had to learn it the hard way!

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FizzySid

Sadly, that's often true...
When a girl says "We need to talk" it usually means she has a problem... Though sometimes, a girl simply wants you to communicate with her, to tell her how you're feeling! Why do you think they say 'Girls love a sensitive guy'?

Legend

and for guy's it's very simple too.

When we say: "what's wrong, hon?"

and if you start to talk real fast it means:

And it's true. One time a good friend just starting going like machine gun without letting my head set in...my flight did not get into blah blah land until 15 mins later. Lucky for me I manage to get the gist of the what she wanted to talk about.

I do have a question for the ladies though...how yall manage to run so fast in high heels??

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FizzySid

Hahaha! Practice!
It's like learning to walk all over again! =D
Nahhhh, instead of trying to put all your weight on those tiny little heels, you walk on your tiptoes... Try running about on tiptoes, it's the same concept really... And you get better at it! XD

Also, I do think that guys are equally as complicated as girls!
It's just a simple stereotype that girls are the more complicated of the two genders... Perhaps due to the fact we all keep saying; "You don't understand me!" and stuff!

Miroku4444

It depends on what guys your talking about. The jock/tough guys are very simple and easy to understands. The complicated guys are the smart, nerdy, or successful ones.

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HolderOfTheDarkChalice

i know i have posted things on here
before but what it boils down to
is the girlis always right it dont
matter if she is wrong she i still
right.

my dad will even agree with this
the best thing to do is just nod
and thingswil go fine unless you
want hours of *why do you think like that?*
plus you will have more *alone* time with her because
she thinks your not in love with her like you used to be'
because you think she is wrong.


beating a dead horse wouldbe easier than disagreeing
wth women

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equinn

guys are just dumb with it XD JK JK

it dependents some girls might be depressed but they don't show an emotion to say they are me for example

when im upset i act really happy like scary happy soo people don't notice.... some of my close friends know when im upset since they know i do it .......

but as soon as someone would ask ' whats wrong ' or something like that i would burst into tears or something.... ( it happened not that long ago)

soo yeah women try to hide feelings same as guys do we just do it better

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!Akura13

yeah, for us, guys always seem complicated! They never talk about things, they just agree with what we say...sometimes it's annoying lol but seriously, we have a complicated way of thinking. Some woman talk freely to guys, some are more complicated with talking to them. As for me, I am soooo shy that's why I always say I have to tell a guy something, then a month later I tell them. Most woman tell guys that they like them after they're sure the guy likes them back. And as for the high heels, it's deffinatly practice! And in my opinion, guys seem more complicated to us. ^^'

crimson

i beg to disagree... often times, what we say is what we mean, it's just that we don't say everything most of the time... even to other guys. because truthfully, in our world, what matters most is to show people that you are strong and that you can handle yourself. and saying everything we need to say often lead us to a pont where we realizethat we've said too much...

but always... when we say say something we mean it as it is...

we are not complicated! i say the same thing i have said above to what you have posted! haha...

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