Personally, I don't think we should make people change to suit our needs. A little change is fine where needed (esp where bad habits are concerned), but hey, in the same way we wouldn't like to be molded into something we're not, we shouldn't be doing the same to others. It goes both ways. I don't like conforming, so I can imagine other people would get miffed if I tried to make them conform to my convenience. A little compromise now and then is fine so everyone can get along - but people are the way they are for a reason, and that reason is not so they can be transformed into something else.