well how would you say this?

ryomakurosaki · Nov 27, 2007, 02:08 PM

hiya folks^^ lol well my question is how would you tell the person you like that you like them?

would it be an email?
note during classes?
text?
or just saying it to their face?

for me i would do it in person uz it makes it all the more special!! i mean i would not like getting a text from a guy say "hi i like you"
that would be a bit werid for me..
but anyways plz say which way would you do this? explain plz folks!! ^^

*Lasura* · Nov 27, 2007, 02:20 PM

Nice topic... talks as well about how we like our relationships as about how shy the person is (in a way)

Well I'm realy shy, so actually it owuld be quite hard for me to say to a person that I like him like face to face... although- if I know him very well I will be able too.

But I wouldn't like e-mails and text messages and notes either, because I just think it is kinda wrong (appart from very special cases- you know what I mean probably- online realtionships).

In this part I am damn lucky, because I always get what I want. ^^ I don't know how it happens, but in the end the guy who I like ends up asking me out. Sometimes friends have helped, sometimes the signs given by me, sometimes even unconciously work very well and sometimes- I'm just lucky enough to fall in love with a guy who falls in love with me ^^

*divine_punishment* · Nov 27, 2007, 02:26 PM

I am practically incapable of telling my crushes how I feel. I usually wait for them to make the first and then inform them of my reciprocation. I am WAAAAAAAAAAY to shy for my own good.

Kairu · Nov 27, 2007, 02:42 PM

Hmm, emails work pretty well. Only thing I see wrong with email and letters is that they can come back to haunt you. Specailly if the girl goes around and shows it to all her friends (Yes it has happened to me)
But that is not always the easiest for those very shy like myself. I say manage to slip it in while talking in person.

Astaroth · Nov 27, 2007, 02:58 PM

I am no the type of person that is afraid to tell what is on my mind
If I truly like a guy and think that me and him would have a solid relationship then I would juts go up to him and tell him how I feel
I really can't stand those type of girls that giggle and whisper to each other about how much they like this guy or that guy
Believe me, guys would be very impressed to see that you are not afraid to tell him how you feel!!!

Umbriel · Nov 27, 2007, 03:45 PM

I suppose it would depend upon the pertaining factors.

Who is it I have growing feelings for? How approachable are they? How do I react around them? How do they react around me? Etc.......

Everyone is as unique as a snowflake. I know I would prefer someone to say it to my face, but I wouldn't feel any less of a thrill finding out another way. I'm a bit shy in person, sometime painfully shy, so a face to face can be extremely awkward and distressing for all involved. Although, I have been told I look so cute when I blush. It seems the more I like someone, the harder it is for me to camouflage it.

I would feel comfortable enough saying I like you, if that is all it meant. I like you... as a friend. If it grew to something more, over time, that would be fine. I would take the chance of a face to face confession. Having already known me, they would understand just what a big step that would be for me.

If it were someone that I feel strongly about from the beginning, I would try to get to know them first, and watch for my opening. A face to face would be preferable, but a note with a beautiful bouquet would be a possibility. I have been approached in just such a way twice. It's very flattering for someone to not just say they like you, but show just how much.

I can remember just how easy it was as a kid. If you liked someone, you walked up to them socked them on the arm, and told them you wanted to be friends. If you had a crush on them you slipped notes in their locker. How many of you couldn't wait for Valentine's day, so you could give them a little valentine on their desk, and hope for the best. Life seemed much clearer and simpler then.

fma1012 · Nov 27, 2007, 04:01 PM

Lol, I am not the type who would tell them stright up.

I really don't say anything to the person...

They usally end up finding out >.>

And then come up to me and say, "So, you like me?"

Lol, they always end up finding out so really I just go with the flow

and see what comes out of it.

ryomakurosaki · Nov 28, 2007, 03:12 AM

wow we have alot of shy people here ^^" but i guess i am the same in some ways. but when it came up to telling the person i went to their face and i told them^^ but he didn't feel the same but whatever ^^ but i loved that we are better friends when that happened ^^
oh yea i don't like the note writing cuz it does come back to haunt to...
so i still chose telling to the face still ^^

*anime_being_god* · Nov 28, 2007, 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by ryomakurosaki

hiya folks^^ lol well my question is how would you tell the person you like that you like them?

would it be an email?
note during classes?
text?
or just saying it to their face?

for me i would do it in person uz it makes it all the more special!! i mean i would not like getting a text from a guy say "hi i like you"
that would be a bit werid for me..
but anyways plz say which way would you do this? explain plz folks!! ^^

different kinds of ppl would do different kinds of things, shy people may send notes or email, but a straight forward person like myself would rather just go up and ask myself

NevesElocin · Nov 28, 2007, 09:23 AM

Personally I prefer to write a letter, that way if I get rejected I won't be able to see that on that person's face. Plus I feel that I can express myslef better through letters and the like. Although an email would be good too.

abc · Nov 28, 2007, 09:24 AM

hmmm good question knowing how shy i am to the opposite sex sometimes i would write him a letter and tell him how much i like him. i would be kinda afraid to tell him to the face in fear that he would embarass me or something.
So to be on the safe side ill write the letter

Nov 27, 2007, 02:08 PM	#1 (permalink)
ryomakurosaki Diamond in the Rough Join Date: May 2007 Location: Where the angels play Posts: 268 Thanks: 17 Thanked 28 Times in 24 Posts Credits: 10,233	well how would you say this? hiya folks^^ lol well my question is how would you tell the person you like that you like them? would it be an email? note during classes? text? or just saying it to their face? for me i would do it in person uz it makes it all the more special!! i mean i would not like getting a text from a guy say "hi i like you" that would be a bit werid for me.. but anyways plz say which way would you do this? explain plz folks!! ^^ __________________ Can't believe I could think that he would just follow me everywhere I go I just wrestle with you in my dreams and wake up making love to my pillow Videos of the week(updated next on June 15):http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PjAsrwW9ptU
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Lasura Angelic Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: In a Demon's Arms Posts: 1,869 Thanks: 56 Thanked 33 Times in 31 Posts Credits: 49,375	Re: well how would you say this? Nice topic... talks as well about how we like our relationships as about how shy the person is (in a way) Well I'm realy shy, so actually it owuld be quite hard for me to say to a person that I like him like face to face... although- if I know him very well I will be able too. But I wouldn't like e-mails and text messages and notes either, because I just think it is kinda wrong (appart from very special cases- you know what I mean probably- online realtionships). In this part I am damn lucky, because I always get what I want. ^^ I don't know how it happens, but in the end the guy who I like ends up asking me out. Sometimes friends have helped, sometimes the signs given by me, sometimes even unconciously work very well and sometimes- I'm just lucky enough to fall in love with a guy who falls in love with me ^^ __________________ My recommended fanfic: "Dreamer" by Scourge
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Kairu Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Everywhere... Posts: 279 Thanks: 10 Thanked 21 Times in 20 Posts Credits: 11,782	Re: well how would you say this? Hmm, emails work pretty well. Only thing I see wrong with email and letters is that they can come back to haunt you. Specailly if the girl goes around and shows it to all her friends (Yes it has happened to me) But that is not always the easiest for those very shy like myself. I say manage to slip it in while talking in person. __________________ I got me a blog now ^_^ Check it out if you would like. Kairu the Otaku
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Astaroth Chtonian Slayer Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: you really do not want to know Posts: 563 Thanks: 23 Thanked 47 Times in 45 Posts Credits: 31,449	Re: well how would you say this? I am no the type of person that is afraid to tell what is on my mind If I truly like a guy and think that me and him would have a solid relationship then I would juts go up to him and tell him how I feel I really can't stand those type of girls that giggle and whisper to each other about how much they like this guy or that guy Believe me, guys would be very impressed to see that you are not afraid to tell him how you feel!!! __________________ DO NOT MAKE ME UNLEASH MY INNER DEMON
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Umbriel Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Where the frozen tears from the heavens paint everything white. Posts: 361 Thanks: 3 Thanked 14 Times in 13 Posts Credits: 25,408	Re: well how would you say this? I suppose it would depend upon the pertaining factors. Who is it I have growing feelings for? How approachable are they? How do I react around them? How do they react around me? Etc....... Everyone is as unique as a snowflake. I know I would prefer someone to say it to my face, but I wouldn't feel any less of a thrill finding out another way. I'm a bit shy in person, sometime painfully shy, so a face to face can be extremely awkward and distressing for all involved. Although, I have been told I look so cute when I blush. It seems the more I like someone, the harder it is for me to camouflage it. I would feel comfortable enough saying I like you, if that is all it meant. I like you... as a friend. If it grew to something more, over time, that would be fine. I would take the chance of a face to face confession. Having already known me, they would understand just what a big step that would be for me. If it were someone that I feel strongly about from the beginning, I would try to get to know them first, and watch for my opening. A face to face would be preferable, but a note with a beautiful bouquet would be a possibility. I have been approached in just such a way twice. It's very flattering for someone to not just say they like you, but show just how much. I can remember just how easy it was as a kid. If you liked someone, you walked up to them socked them on the arm, and told them you wanted to be friends. If you had a crush on them you slipped notes in their locker. How many of you couldn't wait for Valentine's day, so you could give them a little valentine on their desk, and hope for the best. Life seemed much clearer and simpler then. __________________
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fma1012 Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: somewhere Posts: 470 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,823	Re: well how would you say this? Lol, I am not the type who would tell them stright up. I really don't say anything to the person... They usally end up finding out >.> And then come up to me and say, "So, you like me?" Lol, they always end up finding out so really I just go with the flow and see what comes out of it. __________________ ThAnKs CaNdId FoR ThE SwEet SiG~
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ryomakurosaki Diamond in the Rough Join Date: May 2007 Location: Where the angels play Posts: 268 Thanks: 17 Thanked 28 Times in 24 Posts Credits: 10,233	Re: well how would you say this? wow we have alot of shy people here ^^" but i guess i am the same in some ways. but when it came up to telling the person i went to their face and i told them^^ but he didn't feel the same but whatever ^^ but i loved that we are better friends when that happened ^^ oh yea i don't like the note writing cuz it does come back to haunt to... so i still chose telling to the face still ^^ __________________ Can't believe I could think that he would just follow me everywhere I go I just wrestle with you in my dreams and wake up making love to my pillow Videos of the week(updated next on June 15):http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PjAsrwW9ptU
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NevesElocin ~The Mistress~ Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Hell Posts: 699 Thanks: 14 Thanked 11 Times in 11 Posts Credits: 10,272	Re: well how would you say this? Personally I prefer to write a letter, that way if I get rejected I won't be able to see that on that person's face. Plus I feel that I can express myslef better through letters and the like. Although an email would be good too. __________________ My love for you only grows with time...I want to create something beautiful with you.
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abc Newbie Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: In a place of bliss and love is blind Posts: 89 Thanks: 12 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts Credits: 4,642	Re: well how would you say this? hmmm good question knowing how shy i am to the opposite sex sometimes i would write him a letter and tell him how much i like him. i would be kinda afraid to tell him to the face in fear that he would embarass me or something. So to be on the safe side ill write the letter
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