Thread: What is cheating?

to me cheating is when you change for friends to something more

Kissing and hugging? In other countries kissing isn't considered as sexual as it is here. Hugging doesn't have to be sexual at all. I remember in high school I hugged my platonic friend. Some guy asked me if she was my girlfriend because I gave her a hug. I said no. Alot of couples like to hug each other's necks or shoulders. People who don't have a sexual relationship with each other can do the same.

Originally Posted by kedar

~!! Yes, a friendly hug to a family member or a really close friend isn't cheating, I agree, but random hugs are just weird and make me cry~ If it's a girl-to-girl hug-giving thing, it's perfectly fine, but if she like hugs every guy she comes to know, I would feel really sad. And as for holding hands, though it necessarily isn't cheating, I think it's seriously uncouth if a girl that I proposed to is walking on streets holding the hands of another guy, talking and laughing.

A strange thing happened to a friend of mine, which started with a simple hug and a friendly talk, and he ended up slowly loosing his girl to another guy, who is his once best friend. This developed gradually, of course.. So I guess it depends on how sincere the other person is, and I know not all people are like my friend's girlfriend. But relationships can get quite slovenly sometimes.

Hehe I random hug people I know all the time its just normal to me and doesn't seem weird. Its like expressing how happy I am to see them or I am excited about something. Doesn't mean I want them since I adore my boyfriend hehe and everyone knows it. And i like holding hands with friends sometimes especially when I get excited and drag them around lol! Poor friends haha. Lookout Kedar if I ever met you, you sure would get a random hug from me .

Simple hug huh never seen a friend cheat because of that hehe. I had a friend who cheated with her ex-boyfriend even though he had married her friend. No love involved just sex which was a shock cause they had been friendly chatting for years and they didn't even seem interested in each other anymore......lets just say that marriage didn't last and the 2 girls are still friends weird.

I think that when you start kissing with people who arn't your bf or gf, depending on you sex. that is cheating

kissing and further
anything else is cool i think