Nightwish

i've always pondered this since everyone has their own opinion on the matter. i believed it was being there when ur significant other needed u, helping them through bad times, stuff like that. giving the comfort and nurturing they ask for. i dunno if that's just me, but what's everyone elses partake in this?

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Jon f

Hmm.. this is hard for me because I have never been in one that was for real{Serious}Mostly I date the girls for awhile and never plan to keep dating them for to long.But what helps a relationship is been truthful.And yes I know it is hard like hell because sometimes the truth will hurt your guy/girl.So sometimes we got to tell a white lie.XD.Oh talk about things.If something is bugging you tell the other person.That helps alot more

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solking

There are 5 points to a good relationship. Trust, communication, understanding, respect, and above all work. If you can't find these 5 things then you need to reevaluate what you have. We all know about trusting the other person with who you are and your secrets as well and we know about actually talking to that person. Respect and understanding go together (well they all go together) because you have to respect that person and understand that they have feelings and what they want is just as important if not more important than what you feel or desire. Finally I said work is more important than the others is because you don't get the others without work. Trust, respect, and understanding is earned. You have to work hard at them as well as communication. An effortless relationship can be unfulfilling.

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blue_rebel

Trust, openness, respect. I can't see a relationship going anywhere without all three of these.

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JefferyXie

Being honest,trust,respect,patienceunderstanding are the key to maintaining an eternal relationship and it applies to this situation as well.As long as there are these qualities in a relationship,progress will be made and it will go smoothly.

Sazzy

i do agree with you there as there all as important as the next. If a relationship is missing one or more of these vital contents then its a relationship that will not last long. There is no point trying to keep a relationship going if you are missing one of these. Its just destined to end and not really last. For only trying to make it last will cause you more pain.

There is no point beingin a relationship where you are not working out the relationship out together. Its a one sided relationship that again will not last as you can get sick of being used by that person or being pushed around.


Relationships may seem hard and that you sometimes wish you would just live alone as its easier. But we were made to love another and yes the journey to finding the right person may be difficult there is always hope. There is no point trying to make things happen your work. A relationship is about working together with the one you love. Then when you find the one who is for you, you will realise that its not as hard as it previously was. You are able to fully love that person and by showing your love, you would do anything for that person no matter what it is.

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Spike'sRose

I agree with what everyone has said so far...

I can't speak for everyone else when it comes to their relationship, and what they should do to make it work. I can only say what has worked for me.

I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now. What's worked so far is communication. Without that, you cannot convey your love, trust, respect, or openness. You have to be able to communicate in one way or another.

My boyfriend and I have been through some pretty rough patches. We had moments of not speaking to each other. At all. We ignored each other's exsistence! In the end, what saved us was being able to talk about it, even in the fewest words. And with our actions, we were able to communicate how we were feeling.

I know my boyfriend gets disappointed if I don't talk to him about what's going on... Even if it's to tell him I don't really want to talk right then, he wants me to tell him that. ^_^

The other thing that really makes a relationship work is being all that you can for the person you are with. But do it without changing who you are. Just do what you can to support and love that person. If they cannot accept you for who you are, then they don't really love you. So give what you can, but don't give it all. Your significant other needs to give you some support as well. ^_^

There's my two cents! Again, this is just what has worked for my relationship. If it could work for someone else, awesome! ^_^

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MistressMorgan

I think loyalty, honesty, and communication are all important, but there has to be an invisible bond that keeps you together. I dont know how to describe it but I think everyone needs an anchor in life, like the way you think of your house as your home. No matter where you go in the world your home is where you will always feel the safest and most comfortable. I found my anchor with my husband. No matter where I go, if I am with him I feel safe and comfortable. I know that as long as he is with me I will be ok.

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