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    what keeps a relationship going with a girlfriend/boyfriend?

    i've always pondered this since everyone has their own opinion on the matter. i believed it was being there when ur significant other needed u, helping them through bad times, stuff like that. giving the comfort and nurturing they ask for. i dunno if that's just me, but what's everyone elses partake in this?

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    Re: what keeps a relationship going with a girlfriend/boyfriend?

    Hmm.. this is hard for me because I have never been in one that was for real{Serious}Mostly I date the girls for awhile and never plan to keep dating them for to long.But what helps a relationship is been truthful.And yes I know it is hard like hell because sometimes the truth will hurt your guy/girl.So sometimes we got to tell a white lie.XD.Oh talk about things.If something is bugging you tell the other person.That helps alot more
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    Re: what keeps a relationship going with a girlfriend/boyfriend?

    What keeps a relationship together is loyalty, honesty and trust. Those are the main things you have to have in a relationship. As you said in a relationship both gives time to be with the other, to help eachother through problems.
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    Re: what keeps a relationship going with a girlfriend/boyfriend?

    >.> What Keeps it going?

    Easy if the to people want it to. If one is working at it.

    >.> You have to work with a relationship. If you just stop talking for a year. Trust me those 2 people are moving on.

    It takes two, to work it out.

    And everything Ky-lyrra said. Which doesn't alwayswork out thou.
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    Re: what keeps a relationship going with a girlfriend/boyfriend?

    There are 5 points to a good relationship. Trust, communication, understanding, respect, and above all work. If you can't find these 5 things then you need to reevaluate what you have. We all know about trusting the other person with who you are and your secrets as well and we know about actually talking to that person. Respect and understanding go together (well they all go together) because you have to respect that person and understand that they have feelings and what they want is just as important if not more important than what you feel or desire. Finally I said work is more important than the others is because you don't get the others without work. Trust, respect, and understanding is earned. You have to work hard at them as well as communication. An effortless relationship can be unfulfilling.

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    Re: what keeps a relationship going with a girlfriend/boyfriend?

    Trust, openness, respect. I can't see a relationship going anywhere without all three of these.

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    Re: what keeps a relationship going with a girlfriend/boyfriend?

    Being honest,trust,respect,patienceunderstanding are the key to maintaining an eternal relationship and it applies to this situation as well.As long as there are these qualities in a relationship,progress will be made and it will go smoothly.

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    Re: what keeps a relationship going with a girlfriend/boyfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by solking View Post
    There are 5 points to a good relationship. Trust, communication, understanding, respect, and above all work. If you can't find these 5 things then you need to reevaluate what you have. We all know about trusting the other person with who you are and your secrets as well and we know about actually talking to that person. Respect and understanding go together (well they all go together) because you have to respect that person and understand that they have feelings and what they want is just as important if not more important than what you feel or desire. Finally I said work is more important than the others is because you don't get the others without work. Trust, respect, and understanding is earned. You have to work hard at them as well as communication. An effortless relationship can be unfulfilling.
    i do agree with you there as there all as important as the next. If a relationship is missing one or more of these vital contents then its a relationship that will not last long. There is no point trying to keep a relationship going if you are missing one of these. Its just destined to end and not really last. For only trying to make it last will cause you more pain.

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    >.> What Keeps it going?

    Easy if the to people want it to. If one is working at it.

    >.> You have to work with a relationship. If you just stop talking for a year. Trust me those 2 people are moving on.

    It takes two, to work it out.

    And everything Ky-lyrra said. Which doesn't alwayswork out thou.
    There is no point beingin a relationship where you are not working out the relationship out together. Its a one sided relationship that again will not last as you can get sick of being used by that person or being pushed around.


    Relationships may seem hard and that you sometimes wish you would just live alone as its easier. But we were made to love another and yes the journey to finding the right person may be difficult there is always hope. There is no point trying to make things happen your work. A relationship is about working together with the one you love. Then when you find the one who is for you, you will realise that its not as hard as it previously was. You are able to fully love that person and by showing your love, you would do anything for that person no matter what it is.
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