I prefer a girl who is mostly submissive (the kind that would surprise you when she does take the lead once in a while) that isn't to say that I prefer a girl who's totally reliant on me, just enough to make me feel important in her life. I also prefer an intelligent woman who wont split hairs over everything but at the same time not a total pushover. I guess you could say I like a woman who has a mood and tempermant that varies but in a harmonic flux with my own. That's just my picky side though.
There is a standard of which a girl has to meet for me. She has to have an accepting attitude towards things and an inquisitive side as well. She MUST be honest. I'm not too comfortable with women trying to treat me like a puppet (which is prolly the reason most girls don't like me around here.) I'm not controllable so don't try. Trust is definately a big determining factor as well. on top of all this she must be confident in who she is andall of this has to come together with other things that I can't even begin to describe in such a way that has that really neat feeling to it (the one that no one can seem to describe but everyone gets hit by at one point or another.)