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    when do you know that it's time?


    we've all had our hearts broken...
    we've all had our trust torn...
    we've all had our vision dissolved...
    we've all had our hopes lost...
    we've all had our dreams shatterd...

    we've all been hurt at least once before...

    but the question is...

    "when do you know it's time...
    to mend?
    to sew?
    to rebuild?
    to forgive?
    to forget?
    to move on?"


    i believe that i cant tell for myself until someone has held out an open hand to make me feel whole again... i know it's a bit like those for the movies, but i have come to realize through experience that nothing feels better than to know you're worth something in someone's eyes other than your own kin...

    "it sometimes sucks to feel that you've been betrayed or backstabbed... but it will always be there, it's part of life, it's part of being a person, it's part of where you are... without it, you could never be who you are now... maybe it's good, maybe it's bad, but it has helped you mold yourself... you've hurt people too... nothing you do can ever deny that you have, but what you become will be your own retribution in the end... and that's the greatest thing you can ever have..."
    (it's a rough reconstruction but that's almost how it was said)

    i always think of these words that my current girlfriend said when i slumped and broke down after i've lost my previous one... it hurt me a lot... especially since it was all my fault... i thought it was only fitting, what she said, and it feels like i'm a new person now...
    i'll choose to love whoever i wish to love and nobody can stop me from doing so ----

    crimson
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    Re: when do you know that it's time?

    Ahh.. thats very hard... to move on... Hmm.. well i have not have any heartbroken or anything... to me... i don't get sad and sulk for days... maybe for a day i'll be sad.. the next morning.. i'll smile it all away... ^^ watch something funny... anything to make me laugh... it's damn easy to make me feel good im not sure about you guys though...

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    Re: when do you know that it's time?

    depression is something i do not cope with, if it happens to me i definately must go out and get rid of it. also, i don't trust a lot of people, just my girlfriend and my best friend, they always come through for me at anytime and anyplace. you just need to stop trusting in people you know that will betray you, or don't put trust in a person until you know that they will always be there for you. the only reason people get hurt is that they let people hurt them. stop letting people that will hurt you into your life and the pain will almost go away.

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    Re: when do you know that it's time?

    Neither am I a really... depressive person... firstly I've never left anyone and I never will (I think it might be harder...)
    Secondly, I believe that if a person leaves me... he didn't know what he has or I just really was too little or too late or... I don't know. So usually, when I get "dumped" I get over it in a day. And get over it so good that even begging on your knees won't help if you suddenly decide you want me back- no way! I might still love you, I might feel sorry for you... but that was your decision...
    It's different if the person has left me for my own good (seriously and not just because he needed a reason), then I would kinda carry the blame too, it would make me more sad and I might be the one on my knees...

    When it's time? The time is right after if you are dumped. You must start your recovery right then and there. First- let out anger, second- let out pain, third- enjoy your life again.

    Oh... it's almost NEVER... if there is another, more serious *gulps* reason...

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    Re: when do you know that it's time?

    I think i know it when i want to go out, when im not sad, when i dont want to be alone, when i feel like help the other ppl, and mostly when i feel great with myself... i start to look the sky like a silly girl; im ready!! and i somehow i say to myself well im ready

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    Re: when do you know that it's time?

    the time to do everything again, when u are disappointed( please forgive me, i dont know to write it XD)is when u forget and forgive all that makes u cry,
    and then... u will have the force to raise
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    Re: when do you know that it's time?

    Ah, I see. I've had my heart broken from a few girls, but I've learned to move on. It's hard for me to trust people, but not just because of those girls. I've had backstabbers in the past, and including those girls, I can't trust people so easily. I only trust my parents, my friends, and my siblings.

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    Re: when do you know that it's time?

    haha... iguess i'm not the only one out in that realm after all...

    i guess nothing changes much wherever you are in the world... i just hope nobody really slumps down too far... i almost couldn't recover from mine... i know how it feels to hit rock bottom...
    i'll choose to love whoever i wish to love and nobody can stop me from doing so ----

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