Thread: Why do girls have crushes on older guys

Most younger men only want sex and older men at least work for it a little lol

lol violent/ yup and most younger men dont know how to have sex. the older guys really dont have time for that at times in my opinion

Originally Posted by princesslady

well duh the maturity level. most younger guys are immature and are lames. older guys dont play around in that kind of manner anylonger

how do they know they're mature. Is it just an assumption with the way they look?

Originally Posted by Shodokan

how do they know they're mature. Is it just an assumption with the way they look?

Yes unfortunately society and humans are build that way. God forgot to install the feature in us where we can see inner beauty. First impressions are what counts not only in relationships but also in job getting. So how guys and girls conduct themselves = very important.

Personally, I rather date an older female (one two years?) because same reason, younger girls aren't very mature (mentally and physically) despite them thinking they are.

Most of us older men seem to have the damaged psyches that girls are attracted to.....they want to help us, yet most of us cannot help ourselves....and that's why we cannot be with anyone. How can we be comfortable with someone else if we are uncomfortable in our own skins?

They just think you're cool cause your older like princesslady said taurus.

But, I've always been the freak that no girl would touch with their foot.I usually frightened them and they didn't even want to be in the same room with me. Why Am I someone to be desired? I cannot get used to being desirable at all. What do they see in me?What do I have that makes me in vogue. I've always had problems being comfortable in a relationship. . . . .I knew that I'd do something to mess it up.every time.