well in this case i think young ladies should stay focused on what they want its their life and they can do with it what ever they want everyone has to learn on their own or they wont learn anything yea thye could all listen but that doesnt change the fact that they all have are own opinion and choice to do what they want but if they want a boyfriend they should be ready to have hard life cuz a boyfriend who is not serious about a relationship will make life for the lady really hard so all i say is think before you act.