No idea what a Pre-nup is?? Here's a quick excerpt from wikipedia:
Simply put, "Cause when she leave yo' ass she gon' leave with half" goes out the window if you got one up before you got married. Depending on the laws of the land, a Prenuptial agreement is a binding contract stating what can and can't be done in case of a divorce.A prenuptial agreement, antenuptial agreement, or premarital agreement, commonly abbreviated to prenup or prenupt, is a contract entered into by two people prior to marriage or civil union. The content of a prenuptial agreement can vary widely, but commonly includes provisions for the division of property should the couple divorce and any rights to spousal support during or after the dissolution of marriage.
So question to you is: Would you and your spouse draw up a Pre-nup before your marriage??
Feel free to add more thoughts than just answering the question if you want.
'Cause you give me something / That makes me scared, alright / This could be nothing / But I'm willing to give it a try / Please give me something
'Cause someday I might call you from my heart
anymore, the divorce and re-marry rates are way up, as compared to the day when you really where together "till death do you part".
i dont think i would personally, as i agree with divine_punishments first sentance. but then again, i suppose you could never be too careful. if i had like a super owning car, like a ford GT, or something else that ment a lot to me and a mean divorce happened in whitch she would try to take it, i would probably be a jack and torch it. even if i go to jail, sho woudnt get my toys but it all can be avoided if you just "stand by your decision" in the first place.
"You will only have eyes for Me!"
Anywho, I don't know if I would or not. I suppose it depends on the situation. If we start with nothing, I guess whatever we earn during the marriage, she can take half.
But if I've earned all things worth monetary value BEFORE the marriage, pssh!! I'd probably sign the prenup, simply because I'm not gonna let someone leave with half of my belongings and she didn't work to earn it. I don't like the idea of having half of what you worked hard to earn dissapear.
It's almost the same as having your house broken in to and being robbed. >_<
I would think that if Solking and I made a prenup before getting married it will create some trust issues. I don't really know much about a prenuptial agreement as they are not used in England so there isn't any need to know. All that I can gather from a movie I've seen is that a prenup protects yourself from getting ripped into marrying someone because they love you for say, your money. Yet if you don't want her to have any part in getting your money, then you can get a prenupt. I hope I am right about this.
If so then it also ruins our "what is mine, is yours" saying/agreement/plan. In a relationship where you plan to marry, it should be because you love them dearly and like Divine said, till death to you part. Marriage is about the commitment to another person, but where you want to protect your personal belongs... it really does create so many boundaries in the relationship.
Please correct me if any of the information I have given is incorrect.
Here in Portugal we dont have Prenup either, but for exemple; I am my father's heiress lands, and all this lands are in my name if i get marry these lands will still be mine, only mine unless i would agree make some kind of last will to put in name of my family(me and hasbund). if we dicide to get a divorce we only going to divide all we gain together during the marriege... no need Prenup!!