Thread: Are you afraid of falling in love?

I don't think its a a fear of falling in love but more about the fear of not being with someone who doesn't feel the same way I do. I am cautious really about things and have to be 100% sure its what I really want before I take the next step.

I always got rejected but since I was 10 I've had 5 past relationships to find out that this current is surly different and is the real thing. Of course I thought it would end up like my last relationships where I always got hurt and I wasn't sure if I was able to go through all of it again but I still took the risk of confession how I felt and it really was the right thing to do.

Well I am even though I already did. ^^

Why???
Ummm.... well actually I don't know why though??? Maybe cause i don't want to get hurt or hurt anyone else maybe....

I guess it heart breaks me so easily I suppose. ^^

I don't really "Fear" it in general, but to an extent I'm almost "scared" of a commitment and the fact that nobody except my parents have ever loved me before. This, along with other things, has made me bitter and unliking of anyone else for an outstanding relationship.

Originally Posted by KuwiRules145

Well I am even though I already did. ^^

Why???
Ummm.... well actually I don't know why though??? Maybe cause i don't want to get hurt or hurt anyone else maybe....

I guess it heart breaks me so easily I suppose. ^^

i think that's it. People don't want to love due to the fact that they will be alone if the other person is gone and they can't bear that fact of that.

Originally Posted by dark angel swordsman

I don't really "Fear" it in general, but to an extent I'm almost "scared" of a commitment and the fact that nobody except my parents have ever loved me before. This, along with other things, has made me bitter and unliking of anyone else for an outstanding relationship.

I feel the same i can't think of anyone except my parents and friends where i had the same effect of love.The fact is people don't want to be hurt so they try not to love. which is the same as in falling in love.

I am truly terrified of it.....and I am afraid to admit it.......
Why waste your time on it....when in the end you are going to suffer.......
Love can be a powerful thing...in a good way and in a bad way.....
I do not wish to enter the black spiral of "love" and stay miserable.....
I would rather be happy than miserable.......

Originally Posted by ryomakurosaki

Well to be prefectly honest, I am. I don't know what to feel, how to act anything. Everyone keeps saying it's wonderful and you and that special person will be together forever. That's the problem how long is that "forever" I was chatting with my friend about it and we really both agree we are both scaried about it and we will be till that day.

-Are you afraid of falling in love?Explain?

Yes. >< oh god, yes. >< I ruin every relationship i've had because it and on the verge of destroying the one i have now because i'm terrified of it. >.< I never give anyone my whole heart, I always block them out.. i do everything i tell everyone else not to do because i'm terrified of love. >< I don't know why, maybe it's because of my childhood, i never experienced that tender love and care that every child needs.. Maybe it's because i was deprived of that.. I dunno. ><

oh, well, like dark angel swordsman said, I don't fear in general but I am almost scared of falling in love. Why? Because, I'm afraid that if I make a commitment with someone, and it falls apart, I would truly be devistated. I really don't want that to happen, so I try to avoid it as much as possible and I've ruined quite a few relationships because of it...^^'