thx everyone but i reenstalled everything deleted all files and started over but im gonna havta call a aol guy to come to my house to fix it ---apparently they have other calss about this and they just put in a cd click 'ok' 'yes' 'install' ;ok' and all that crap and its fixed... so yay!! but itll be 2 weeks before they get here....

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

thx for everyones help!!!