why dont you just PM me ?? - -^
first, get an avatar, and I know you already did that.
save it in ur computer. then go to "my panel". next, click edit avatar.
next, click 'browse' and look for the place where you saved ur avatar... Then, click OK and Save Changes. [that is the easiest way to put an avatar]
Or you can also go to imageshack.us and get a URL for it.
simplest thing in your life.