First off I'd like to say you made the right choice about not installing the hack program thingy. That's a huge invasion of privacy and the admins shouldn't be digging into other peoples privacy like that. ( Of course everyone has covered this heh. =P) I guess I should say I agree with the general decisions of what people said.
An now I've a question involving an incident that's a lot different and may not have been backstabbing. But here goes. (Figured this was the place to ask since it's a thread on backstabbing.)
My supposed 'best' friend lives here with my family. He tends to talk me about all his problems to which I listen and give whatever advice I can. But one night when I was trying to get to sleep ( He must have thought I was asleep.) He started talking to my brother which is fine. But I over heard him saying how he thought I was worthless, that if he were me he'd kill himself and flatly said I'd never make anything of myself in life despite plans made to get out on my own. ( He stated that I'd fail at the plans I've got made as well.)
Well my question is, Any ideas what I should do about it? I'm really passive RL so I avoid most disputes. He still talks to me about his problems and has no idea I know this. I can barely deal with being around him but as I mentioned he lives here and still talks to me like I'm his 'best' friend. Up till now I've just played it off like nothing happened.