Does anyone like to help people but gets screwed in the long run?

Alucard_Spriggan · Mar 07, 2006, 06:45 AM

I am always helping people out with their problems, whether their problems are with other friends, Family, Relationships, People wanting to commit suicide, etc. I am doing my best no matter how hard it is to help these people and even though I am doing my best, I am having those that I try to help become angry with me for not being able to help. I am not a professional so I can only do so much and I dont understand that when I am not able to help someone why they would become angry with me especially when I am trying to help because I care for all of my friends. I guess what I am saying is what would you guys do because I feel like I am being backed into a corner and surrounded with no way to escape. I know that I cant save the world, but I at least want to help my friends...

alison_faith · Mar 07, 2006, 06:46 AM

sometimes you just have to let them go if you can't help them no matter what.

Alucard_Spriggan · Mar 07, 2006, 06:55 AM

I know I should just let them go, but because of how I am and dont want to let my friends down and watch them take a fall when I can try to help it just makes letting them go easier said then done...no matter how many times I have tried to let go in the past, but thanks for the advice.

*Zdenek* · Mar 07, 2006, 07:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Alucard_Spriggan

I am always helping people out with their problems, whether their problems are with other friends, Family, Relationships, People wanting to commit suicide, etc. I am doing my best no matter how hard it is to help these people and even though I am doing my best, I am having those that I try to help become angry with me for not being able to help. I am not a professional so I can only do so much and I dont understand that when I am not able to help someone why they would become angry with me especially when I am trying to help because I care for all of my friends. I guess what I am saying is what would you guys do because I feel like I am being backed into a corner and surrounded with no way to escape. I know that I cant save the world, but I at least want to help my friends...

That's exactly my problem. Just choose to help only to the people loyal to you.

alison_faith · Mar 07, 2006, 07:07 AM

your right help those that are most loyal the are more apt to listen

Alucard_Spriggan · Mar 07, 2006, 07:15 AM

Ok, I will try talking to those more loyal to me and try to work with them. Even though I will work more with them I will not forget about the others and I must keep them fighting too so if u know what to do for them that would help me out and be extremely appreciated.

Miroku4444 · Mar 07, 2006, 08:23 AM

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Alucard_Spriggan Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 257 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts Credits: 1,071	Does anyone like to help people but gets screwed in the long run? I am always helping people out with their problems, whether their problems are with other friends, Family, Relationships, People wanting to commit suicide, etc. I am doing my best no matter how hard it is to help these people and even though I am doing my best, I am having those that I try to help become angry with me for not being able to help. I am not a professional so I can only do so much and I dont understand that when I am not able to help someone why they would become angry with me especially when I am trying to help because I care for all of my friends. I guess what I am saying is what would you guys do because I feel like I am being backed into a corner and surrounded with no way to escape. I know that I cant save the world, but I at least want to help my friends... __________________ Hey if u have xbox live add me or msg me on my Xbox 360 tag Sin Spriggan. *Thank you Ryomakurosaki for the wicked sig!!*
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alison_faith Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: where the heavens meet the earth Posts: 121 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 210	Re: Does anyone like to help people but gets screwed in the long run? sometimes you just have to let them go if you can't help them no matter what. __________________ "The face is the mirror of the mind, and the eyes,without speaking, confess the secrets of the heart." - Saint Jerome
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Alucard_Spriggan Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 257 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts Credits: 1,071	Re: Does anyone like to help people but gets screwed in the long run? I know I should just let them go, but because of how I am and dont want to let my friends down and watch them take a fall when I can try to help it just makes letting them go easier said then done...no matter how many times I have tried to let go in the past, but thanks for the advice. __________________ Hey if u have xbox live add me or msg me on my Xbox 360 tag Sin Spriggan. *Thank you Ryomakurosaki for the wicked sig!!*
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alison_faith Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: where the heavens meet the earth Posts: 121 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 210	Re: Does anyone like to help people but gets screwed in the long run? your right help those that are most loyal the are more apt to listen __________________ "The face is the mirror of the mind, and the eyes,without speaking, confess the secrets of the heart." - Saint Jerome
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Alucard_Spriggan Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 257 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts Credits: 1,071	Re: Does anyone like to help people but gets screwed in the long run? Ok, I will try talking to those more loyal to me and try to work with them. Even though I will work more with them I will not forget about the others and I must keep them fighting too so if u know what to do for them that would help me out and be extremely appreciated. __________________ Hey if u have xbox live add me or msg me on my Xbox 360 tag Sin Spriggan. *Thank you Ryomakurosaki for the wicked sig!!*
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