The effects of losing someone important to you

Hassun · Nov 06, 2005, 02:18 PM

And I'm not talking about the obvious effects. No, I am searching for
thoughts from the AO members about the less obvious effects of losing someone special to you.

Things that you wouldn't expect to affect you in a particular way, things that you do what you didn't do before, etc.

Enlighten me.

*dark angel swordsman* · Nov 06, 2005, 02:23 PM

things that are less obvious? well....i don't know if this would be a less obvious or not but when my aunt died i started blaming myself and random people in my school, punching my locker, and stuff like that. you could say i was enraged god killed her and i didnt get to say goodbye to her....does that work?

Hassun · Nov 06, 2005, 02:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dark angel swordsman

things that are less obvious? well....i don't know if this would be a less obvious or not but when my aunt died i started blaming myself and random people in my school, punching my locker, and stuff like that. you could say i was enraged god killed her and i didnt get to say goodbye to her....does that work?

It's not a matter of me confirming that it's a good example.

So the reason you became more violent is that you didn't have the chance to say goodbye to your aunt?

*dark angel swordsman* · Nov 06, 2005, 02:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hassun

It's not a matter of me confirming that it's a good example.

So the reason you became more violent is that you didn't have the chance to say goodbye to your aunt?

something along the lines of that....pathetic huh?

Hassun · Nov 06, 2005, 03:13 PM

I'm not judging anyone in this thread, the effects can be very unpredictable.
That's what this thread is about.

Suzy · Nov 06, 2005, 03:29 PM

I'm not judging anyone in this thread, the effects can be very unpredictable.

That's what this thread is about.

like tryin to killin you're self for thinkin that person has been lost is you're fault.

dnangel141 · Nov 06, 2005, 03:34 PM

Well i think like your anger builds about things easier then before that what happened to me.Then respecting life and training yourself and make sure your healthy..

*solking* · Nov 06, 2005, 08:06 PM

Well when I went through my Black Year where 12 of my friends died in a big gang war, I actually lost all emotions. To this very day I have't smiled or even showed I care anymore.

Zero Cool · Nov 07, 2005, 01:42 AM

My friend died in a train accident, it was really horrilble, I had exams in that week, so yuo will guess I didn't pass that year, but I think you will get over it.

*Kasai* · Nov 07, 2005, 01:44 AM

I never knew how much I depended upon my great aunt. I found myself referring to her more and more and missing her. Saying how much she couldve helped this person and that.

My mother caused another effect. She never told me my aunt passed, I heard from a friend. To this day she has not said that my aunt passed. I'm starting to act the same way. If something pains me I'll keep that something to myself. Even if I need to tell my mother.

Japyez · Nov 07, 2005, 02:18 AM

About 4 years ago, my childhood friend died, car accident. And it just had to happen when I was there. The two-lanes road was clear,and she was crossing the road to meet me, when a car came speeding. It all happened very fast..I just don't know,until now, who to blame. Sometimes, I just wondered if I was the one who caused it,or was it just written down that she had to die like that..

But what I really regret is : I didn't get to show her the present I bought for her that day..

However,the more I think about it, the more I should forget about what happened and move on.

Nov 06, 2005, 02:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
Hassun shittle Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Pretiacruento Posts: 7,028 Thanks: 0 Thanked 39 Times in 34 Posts Credits: 24,707	The effects of losing someone important to you And I'm not talking about the obvious effects. No, I am searching for thoughts from the AO members about the less obvious effects of losing someone special to you. Things that you wouldn't expect to affect you in a particular way, things that you do what you didn't do before, etc. Enlighten me. __________________ Gorecreeps inc.
Status: Offline

Nov 06, 2005, 02:23 PM	#2 (permalink)
dark angel swordsman God of Destruction Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 1,839 Thanks: 1 Thanked 5 Times in 3 Posts Credits: 13,221	Re: The effects of losing someone important to you things that are less obvious? well....i don't know if this would be a less obvious or not but when my aunt died i started blaming myself and random people in my school, punching my locker, and stuff like that. you could say i was enraged god killed her and i didnt get to say goodbye to her....does that work? __________________ If you're lucky, I may give you a tiny sliver of my godliness.
Status: Offline

Nov 06, 2005, 03:13 PM	#5 (permalink)
Hassun shittle Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Pretiacruento Posts: 7,028 Thanks: 0 Thanked 39 Times in 34 Posts Credits: 24,707	Re: The effects of losing someone important to you I'm not judging anyone in this thread, the effects can be very unpredictable. That's what this thread is about. __________________ Gorecreeps inc.
Status: Offline

Nov 06, 2005, 03:29 PM	#6 (permalink)
Suzy Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: In Puerto Rico the stinkiest place on earth.^~^ Posts: 346 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 210	Re: The effects of losing someone important to you I'm not judging anyone in this thread, the effects can be very unpredictable. That's what this thread is about. like tryin to killin you're self for thinkin that person has been lost is you're fault. __________________ '' Death, cruelty, murder the things i have hate forever, Life is like a test with a limited time'' And doesnt have any sign'' I wish i could help you but i make things worst, by liken you
Status: Offline

Nov 06, 2005, 03:34 PM	#7 (permalink)
dnangel141 Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Ny Posts: 138 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 210	Re: The effects of losing someone important to you Well i think like your anger builds about things easier then before that what happened to me.Then respecting life and training yourself and make sure your healthy.. __________________
Status: Offline

Welcome to AnimeOnline.net, your personal Anime Community!	Anime Online Rulez!

Nov 06, 2005, 08:06 PM	#8 (permalink)
solking 4.01 M33-2 Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: In Posts: 1,494 Thanks: 3 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts Credits: 13,261	Re: The effects of losing someone important to you Well when I went through my Black Year where 12 of my friends died in a big gang war, I actually lost all emotions. To this very day I have't smiled or even showed I care anymore. __________________
Status: Offline

Nov 07, 2005, 01:42 AM	#9 (permalink)
Zero Cool Newbie Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Dinosaur Posts: 7 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 110	Re: The effects of losing someone important to you My friend died in a train accident, it was really horrilble, I had exams in that week, so yuo will guess I didn't pass that year, but I think you will get over it. __________________ "We saw him, we did,well..you know what they say about rats"
Status: Offline

Nov 07, 2005, 01:44 AM	#10 (permalink)
Kasai Domme Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 2,745 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,490	Re: The effects of losing someone important to you I never knew how much I depended upon my great aunt. I found myself referring to her more and more and missing her. Saying how much she couldve helped this person and that. My mother caused another effect. She never told me my aunt passed, I heard from a friend. To this day she has not said that my aunt passed. I'm starting to act the same way. If something pains me I'll keep that something to myself. Even if I need to tell my mother. __________________ Seduced by Flesh
Status: Offline

Nov 07, 2005, 02:18 AM	#11 (permalink)
Japyez Newbie Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: japan..near a shrine...where?? Posts: 38 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 210	Re: The effects of losing someone important to you About 4 years ago, my childhood friend died, car accident. And it just had to happen when I was there. The two-lanes road was clear,and she was crossing the road to meet me, when a car came speeding. It all happened very fast..I just don't know,until now, who to blame. Sometimes, I just wondered if I was the one who caused it,or was it just written down that she had to die like that.. But what I really regret is : I didn't get to show her the present I bought for her that day.. However,the more I think about it, the more I should forget about what happened and move on. __________________ Lurving him..souji-chan ^-^ naoya \|tsuk\|
Status: Offline

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Email this Page
Display Modes
Linear Mode Switch to Hybrid Mode Switch to Threaded Mode

Similar Threads
Thread	Thread Starter	Forum	Replies	Last Post
Annual Losing Teams: Royals Break 19 Game Losing Streak	Delerium	The Vault	8	Aug 23, 2005 10:09 PM
Important!! (Inuyasha on Adult Swim)	Blou	The Vault	20	Jul 06, 2005 12:05 AM
Important Barbecue Tips	Zui Quan	The Vault	11	Jun 06, 2005 02:25 PM
tips on how to date without losing your mind!!!	Mazer	The Vault	20	Feb 10, 2005 05:08 PM
Somewhat Important Announcement!	Zui Quan	The Vault	57	Nov 12, 2004 04:55 AM