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How do you solve conflicts with others like if someone is bothering you, or if someone is bothering your friend? Please list more if you know anymore. Violence, talk to the person, tell an adult? What do you use to solve these types of problems? AND PLEASE EXPLAIN WHY!
~Kiss
usually with guys about my age, i resolve with my fists because it's effective and they learn their lesson. with girls i try to sweet-talk, and with older people i just barely talk about my problems....younger kids aren't smart enough to know about my life :lurk:
Well it really depends on the situation, is the conflict heated, if it is, then I try cooling words, and if that doesn't seem to work then its a boot to the head if they swing.
Now, if its a peaceful conflict, then sweet, understanding words are what come about. I tend to stay a pacifist, unless provoked. I hate fighting, I hate anger.
i dont argue at all, I donthave time to waste on that. if it boils down to a fist fight it might happen but generally people will be shouting and i'm still calm try to deal with a situation as objectivly as possible anger breeds confusion so its not needed to reslove a conflict
Me? I would just avoid the situation unless it turns really bad and they want to fight you.......then I guess I'd have to protect myself......
Nice question, dude:thumb:.
When it comes to me: if someone is bothering me, I never tend to mind their words. If someone calls me names or uses bad words...I ask them first to stop it. If they continue, I never walk away or anything...I just continue doing the things that I am doing at that moment. If it is all about me (just on me)...I don't mind or care that much. I always maintain a whole bunch of composure in my heart. I am not an irascible dude.
When it comes to my family or friends: Now, it is a whole different league. If I hear a single bad word used against my family or friends, I don't ask them to stop what there are doing. Instead, I will see to it that they apologize at once, on the sight, no exceptions. If they continue doing that, then I take the form of a keshi---a demon. No kidding, but not brutal, of course. Now, there is some room for action and badass butt-kicking moves, only intended for dudes (I never harm a child, a lady, or an elder---Seven Code Of Manu). I only gotten into five fights so far in my life...never intend to have more. I encountered one incident recently...regarding with my little sister. Now, the dust is clear and the matter is settled.
Most of the people in my town know me for a reason, so, no pervert or a dude get involved with my family or friends or even me. I respect martial arts, and never utilize it to harm an individual, unless required.
Other routes that I take: I usually take to my parents...regarding things like these first. My grandfather is also very prudent at giving right advices. The other person from whom I seek an advice on these matters is, my master himself. He a very intelligent and wise man, who I venerate, always. I also talk to my friends...and here their opinions. The last person to whom I also ask, is my master's granddaughter...a special someone, who loves and cares for me, forever, just like my family and friends.
That is about it, dude.
thats really cool ^^ But as for me, I havent gotten into a violent fight or never will.......its not my thing. Especially that Im the kind of person that will try anything to not get in a fight. I hate violence......=SQuote:
Originally Posted by kedar
If compromising doesn't solve conflicts you have to fight, that's the only way to solve them.....