Since shadowdeath has basically annoyed me with his comments in the other forum about having 4 girls, I think that this presents a opportunity to see what you guys think about love.
So here's the question, what do you guys/girls think love is and how should it be?
Love is somthing which always seems to hurt
Lol no it depends i think it's when u care so much for someone that your life would just end if u coudl not be with them and stuff, it's a deep caring for one another.
Hell i've been in love before and when it ends it's sad but then there is always more fish in the sea hey. I try at the moment not to fall in love it hurts less.
[QUOTE=SenseiGohan]Love is somthing which always seems to hurt
well actually I think that is quite true, except the fact that the results are more of a reason to bear with the "hurt"
really depends on what kind of love you are talking about, like boy girl love or love from a parent, etc.
but they all share common characteristics, sacrifice and understanding
i could agree with that. it does hurt i suppose. if u are with someone u would give ur life for. felt that way once before, and now i'm experiencing it again. but anyways, i do say that it really depends on who u are with.
what i have right now
what I lost, and what wasn't meant to be
Good question, Rou. I'm not even sure if i can answer it, but i do have some thoughts on the subject.
Love is when the only thing you want is to just hold someone, or maybe just hold their hand, and that's all you want from them. You don't need to say anything or do anything, and you don't need them to say anything or do anything; you just want to hold them because it makes you feel so peaceful that words can't describe it.
Some people think love is about sacrifice. Maybe its true, i am no guru. But i think love is when you need neither to give nor to receive; when you don't need to sacrifice to make them happy and they don't need to sacrifice to make you happy. I think in a loving relationship the only things you give are your time and loving attention.
love... love... u give and give, thoughtlessly, recklessly, wholeheartedly and unabashadly. you give all, because they are more important to you than yourself.
but it hurts when it doesn't work out. it hurts because all was given and it wasn't enough for them. it hurts.
love is suffering, life is suffering
The end is important in all things.