I asked my ex. to Hollyball and she agreed to go with me, but then she started to get into a friend of mine. i've starting to get into another girl and because my ex. was into this friend i asked this other girl to Hollyball because i figured that my ex. would end up going with my friend. Today though she found out he likes to sleep around, drink, smoke (other than cigs), ect. and now i'm not so sure she's as into him as before (she doesn't like the things he does). what should i do? i still want to go with this other girl but i don't want to hurt my ex's feelings. I feel completely lost and terrible and confused.