Originally Posted by Kikieru
You cant only blame the child, nor can you blame the parents/society or the gov, Its easy to blame, but is the blame accurate or does the blame apply to all acedemic failures of children.
My cousin was expelled from different schools becouse he missbehaved(very badly), the teachers dismissed him as a bad kid although he did good work somtimes and made an effort, none of the teachers asked my cousin why, how he feels when he does something bad or leading up to his wrong action, His parents kept asking the teachers whether he had ADD or ADHD, they said no, after a few schools, his parents took him to a doctor, few diagnosis and scans, it turned out to be ADHD, no with medication hes back at school and getting great grades, only problem is, becouse of the medication he's lost a few stone in weight and is a little slim, he suffered from depression and became a different person.
Some children dont realised the importance of education, like me, It wasnt becouse I didnt care, I didnt realise, My mind wasnt built enough to comprehend nor did I have any ambition or desire, I was never shown that been more knowledgeble was beneficial, it wasnt something I experience and took in, among other problems, I was miss-diagnosed with Epilepsy, for those who have it, youre career future isnt as promising, you cannot operate machinery, watch flashy video which can potentially trigger epileptic fits, ride a bike, drive a car, among other things, I was told that the epilepsy can get alot worse, I was put on drugs, I ended up been on 12 pills a day(I think there were 400mg per pill). the pillls caused me to become very depressed and I had outbursts of anger. This happend in the last two years of high school which is the most inportant, its wehere all prep and course work begins which contribute to the overlall grade, then after school and I failed they told me that I didnt have epilepsy, me and another 150 kids where missdiagnosed by a doctor who wasnt qaulified to diagnose.
about 20/30 years ago, teachers and parents didnt know what ADD, ADHD or dyslexia was (among other nuruelogical disorders).
Allthough nuruelogical disorders are only contribitive to acedemic failures.