Women feel compeled to be a certain way. I'm 20, and a virgin, and embarassed as all hell. Maybe I shouldn't be, but Its as if, now I won't be able to find a guy who wants anything to do with me, because of lack of experience. Most guys, not all, but alot, have insanely high expectations, and alot of women go off the deep end and become huge sluts to accomidate what alot of men say they're looking for. For quite some time I did the internet dating, because at least then, you got to know someone for their personality, and couldn't be pressured for sex. There are alot of good girls still out there, you just can't find them because they hide from men because it seems like all men want is sex. You give me a guy, who will wait a year, or even until marriage to have sex, and i'd marry that man because he'd be the last of his kind.