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    simplicity

    its pretty simple and i think most people have said it so far. girls want more mature guys, so they go for older males. guys realize they cant get the girls their age cause they are going for older guys, and therefore go for younger ones. dont bother dating till ur at least like 20, otherwise ur just wasting time......can you really expect something serious when ur 15....i guess its a good time to learn tho

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    either way a guy with a car is nice so i don't have to take the subway what is a 15 year old good for? he has no money, and all we would do is hang out at his house or the darn movies all day long..... young guys have no imagination and older guys are just better and not all are looking for sex, normal people understand the difference between stagetory rape and a relationship. i dunno what people the girls in your school date, but not every girl is like that. i liek older guys and young guys. it makes no difference to me and it shouldn't matter to you what people do with their business

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    Well, drawing on past experience. When I was 16 and my friends started panting after the college guys they would give me all kinds of reasons; they were more mature, they had a car, they would treat them differently, or "you know". As their friend I can tell you all the reasons they gave were excuses. They did it because they thought it made them "cool" . You know what? By the time we were seniors the college guys were forgotten and anyone chasing older guys was considered desperate or pitiful. (Maturity evens out between 16 and 18.)

    Now here's the scary part. When I got to college I had a lot of friends and I got to know the guys that would make a habit of dating high school girls. Let me just say that I had friends in high school still and if any of those guys had hit on them I would have told them to run. They were guys between 18-22 who couldn't get a date with a girl their own age so they would hit on 15 yr olds. They would flatter them and tell them whatever they wanted to hear so they could get what they wanted. Most of them I would classify as predetors, and several of them did get arrested (often for rape).

    Put simply; if you want someone with a car find a friend with an obliging older sibling, if you want someone more mature wait until you're old enough that they are, and if want a hug ask a friend. It's alot safer.

    Now if you're both over 21, that's a whole different picture.
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    isn't ppl who just date for cars and money called scrubs and gold diggers??

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    Quote Originally Posted by pyoro-pyoro
    isn't ppl who just date for cars and money called scrubs and gold diggers??
    No, that is called using someone. Scrubs are just losers, and gold diggers are looking to take every asset you have.

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    Hmm, since there aren't many guys at my school, I don't know how much good i'm going to be in this topic, but i'll try to answer the question.

    Why do girls always tent to go out with older guys that are for that vast majorety looking for sex insted of a actual relationship?

    I don't really know. I've never really dated anyone and i've never had much of an interest in doing so. But I think that girls that do date older guys do so because they want to use him as some kind of status symbol. "Oh look, I have a boyfriend that's 5 years older than me, aren't I great? Golly, I'm so advanced socially."

    When you see that, just don't pay them any attention, which is what they want. It's their life, and they can lead it however they want so long as it doesn't effect you. I know I don't think much of it... even though one day I would like to meet a guy a little older than myself.

    Hmmm... He's not technically human, so it wouldn't really be like cannibalism...
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    Well some reasons I can think of:
    1. They have a car/can drive (depends on the age obviously)
    2. They have more money and other material posessions generally
    3. Since they're older they're supposed to be more mature
    4. Because it'll make them look "cool" to all their friends

    Reasons I believe young teen girls shouldn't date older guys until they are about 17:

    1. Guys go ut with young teen girls because they're easier to manipulate than someone their own age
    2. They can't get anyone their own age, haha, so there's obviously something wrong
    3. He can always pcik up another young girl so your expendable to him
    4. When it all ends you'll end up emotionally broken, and it's just not worth it
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