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Thread: Your gf/bf's cheating on ya!

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    Re: Your gf/bf's cheating on ya!

    This this kind of thing happen alot then?

    This is actually a really tough question to answer... but I suppose that I would want to know, and I would want him to tell me. I'm not sure that I would forgive him though, unless the circumstances were exceptional.

    In my opinion, if you are dating someone and they cheat... it's probably the most damaging thing that can happen in a relationship. By consenting to date someone, I would be putting a degree of my trust into him (and he supposedly putting the same amount of trust into me). If he broke that trust right away, then I don't think I would even attempt to salvage him. But if I knew enough about him... enough to know that he wouldn't mean to hurt my feelings... then I might try to save something. But again, only if he told me the whole truth up front and apologised.

    Hmmm... He's not technically human, so it wouldn't really be like cannibalism...
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    Re: Your gf/bf's cheating on ya!

    almost happened to me...

    He didn't really cheat...not yet neway. While I was still going out with this guy, one of my best friends asked him if he had feelings for her (since she did for him). She told me he answered "yes". But he never really acted on it (IE: go any further into a relationship with her), nor did he distance himself from her, nor did he down right correct his statement and reject her.

    At one point we decided we needed some time apart from each other to think things through for other reasons and the girl told me about it (cuz her concience was bugging her). When I confronted him about it, he denied he ever said "yes", and said he didn't see it as a big deal and decided not to tell me about it. Dispite the girl telling him, a little while after, that I should know. I have more than enough reason to believe the girl's story, and more than enough reason to doubt his story. After that we never got back together and he thinks I hate his guts (even tho i've moved on).

    Had he admitted and come clean with all this, I would've forgiven him considering nothing really happened and we were having a rough time at the time. I can't stand a guy who won't admit that he did something wrong, and personally hate lying from anyone.

    But in the end, it depends on the circumstances and the relationship in question. There's no universal answer of to forgive or not to forgive.
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    Re: Your gf/bf's cheating on ya!

    me and my girlfreind decided that we would definitely tell each other. possibly in advance, we understand that occasionally you want to take your stress out but with someone else. so yeah i would ant her to tell me and she would and if i did i would tell her, and i would forgive.
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    Re: Your gf/bf's cheating on ya!

    somtimes girls go out with guy for money or a dare. that what i think

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    Re: Your gf/bf's cheating on ya!

    if i caught my bf, *if i ever have one* cheating on me. i would confront him infront of ppl or his frends. kick his ass, call my frends to help me kick his ass again. bring back all the gifts, throw a rock in his wondow, and leave

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    Re: Your gf/bf's cheating on ya!

    I think it veryies persoanly I cant seem to get attached to someone enough to care I think a friend put it best


    just watching people I know, I lose more and more respect for women all the time. ..Which is why I'll never be lonely. Too many flaws in them for me to fall in love.
    You dont just forgive her a month or two later when you're feeling lonely, dumbass. That nuts should be permananet as possible. She's not special. No she wont f**kin change...EVER...... We've already proven it... she'll keep going nuts over and over. Now we just have to pound that into your f**kin skull. Second, she wont miss you till you leave her alone, and has the chance to miss you.... and if you had ANY sense at all, you'd be long gone and never... but you wont be, cause you're a dumbass, and dont want to learn, cause you think you still want her... a girl who doesnt love you back, who doesnt understand/care what she's doing... who never dated you in the first place, yet you're still fawning over... you believe she's whats missing in life, so you're unhappy... which is your real problem... A) its not true, having her wont fix nuts. B) You're doing it to your f**kin self. You dont have the discipline to make yourself happy... or atleast not f**kin care about her.
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    Re: Your gf/bf's cheating on ya!

    Quote Originally Posted by Lady Karasu I'l Myoshin
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    aww lol seriously dont even grieve over it not only was I better off my last made up for it and then some so you dont even have to worry about me thanks so much though!

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    Re: Your gf/bf's cheating on ya!

    Cheers, cheri.
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