Thread: Being Matrue

what the crap is this. dude who ever wrote this does not understand the whole online friendship thing I mean what the crap. Calm down about the whole ao's pure one. It's just a nick name. Would you have a fit with me when I put Ninja Master or Samurai master. would ya would ya would ya. Not saying k is wrong here but what ever is said just leave it it doesn't matter
Honestly who isint a little fake on the net i' mean you are never 100% true about your self to protect your self on the net. What could she have done that would be so bad on this site
geez let bye gones be bye gone, get over it and move on, do you feel better that you have let this abuse go. Was it worth it. What have you gained. You need to be content with what has happened and let it be, move on as sort of the words of edward elric

woah, some pretty harsh things were said there. maybe you should get rid of the swear words and such lol. our audience is meant to be pg rated xD

as for the actual topic, all i can say is - never trust anyone you meet on the net, unless you're sure that they're worthy. net deception is a pretty big concern, and my number one advice will always be the same - don't trust anyone unless you're sure they're worthy.

i've met a lot of people on the net, and some have even become my close friends. in saying this, i've known said people for a pretty long time, and they've earned my trust. but even now, i sometimes still question - how can i be sure they're trustworthy? i can't be sure, so i've learnt to take chances. if it doesn't turn out well, then i let go. if it does, then i count myself lucky.

sorry.. i was laughing a while ago... XD
i might be able to even fathom who wrote that but i'll pretend i dont know.

Maturity has a lot to do in one's relationship. Even if friendship.
The quote of yours, k-san.. is an example of a really immature messgae. a very long immature message that makes me laugh. However, I dont blame him/her. ^^ we get mad and let out our steam by being immature.

this looks more irrational to me (='.'=) is there any difference? anyway...
i dont know what's behind all this and who is right or wrong.
If you wanna talk abooout maturity, always start with yourself XD

ganbatte!!!!

Originally Posted by Aya-kun

sorry.. i was laughing a while ago... XD
i might be able to even fathom who wrote that but i'll pretend i dont know.

Maturity has a lot to do in one's relationship. Even if friendship.
The quote of yours, k-san.. is an example of a really immature messgae. a very long immature message that makes me laugh. However, I dont blame him/her. ^^ we get mad and let out our steam by being immature.

this looks more irrational to me (='.'=) is there any difference? anyway...
i dont know what's behind all this and who is right or wrong.
If you wanna talk abooout maturity, always start with yourself XD

ganbatte!!!!

I never said I was mature. I know for one I am not, but this is not about Mature people. Its about the Mature FriendShip.

If I was more Mature would this have happened.

Or is it the fact that I am just ME.

Mature in friendship is still unknow to me, but I was looking for someone that had one.

So they can tell me. Was it my lack of mature ways that put me here, or was it that I am just a Bit** How they put it! ^-^

I am not turning anyone aginist anyone. I clearly stated this thread, saying I am giving no names.

Or is this all just plan Jealous. I just want to know!

i nerver said you were! XD
but because you tiltle this thread 'being mature', so im talking about maturity etc ^^ll forget it. i dont have such intelligence ^^lll Im just a sheep..

no further comment ~ ^_^ wish you all the best~ I have not much of an idea what went on so---- *thinks*all the bst~ ^_^

if you are mature, you would know how to handle this. if not.. you can still handle this with the help of your AO buddies! XD you have so many!!! they'll help you!!

sorry, im useless and stupid ^^lll

p/s: maybe that friend of yours felt neglected.. ^^

Know they are your friend, even thou they say they are?

u can never know wether they think of u as a true friend especially over the net, unless they are put in a position where have nothing to gain like ur in trouble and need their help even though they might get into the same trouble they will still help u out. also u can generaly tell by the way rthe act around other while ur their if they think of u as a true friend, but like all things u can rarely tell 4 sure.

When they say they care do you really believe them?

It really depend on ur trust and belief in that person. for me i will straight up believe them, but if they do something the complete oposite then i they would of lost nearly all of my trust, and their words don't been much at all... like the old saying actions are louder than words, well i think its something along those lines.

Do friendships get better with time?

in most cases friendships usauly get stronger over time if u stay in contact with that person. and also u should be able to tollerate that person if u spent like 7 yrs of ur life with them. but with time usauly come trust, and the more time u spend with a friend and get to know them, the more trust u will have and usauly makes a strong frienship.

So what is it to be Mature?

what it means to be mature to me is to be able to accept and tollerate other people and also to be able to express urself without fear of other people judging u. so u can act childish, but u can still be mature. and from the ranting from the quote u posted, this person seems to be really inmature... if they believe they are mature they might need to have a long look in the mirror, but even then they wont reckonise it cause being mature even means being able to evuate urself, to now ur fault and weaknesses and to improve on then to become a better person.


well i hope that anwser ur questions K..

Ok, well first of all. Think about this, how badly did you hurt this person's feelings K? I mean this person wouldn't write this for no reason. Also you're basically just setting yourself up for discribing yourself in this person's entire quote. You obviously are acting innocent because you're making it look like you did nothing wrong, when in all reality you had to have done SOMETHING to make this person that mad at you. Furthermore, I find it funny that you put this in the "Being Mature" because if you ask me..This action was not a very mature thing to do K. You should keep your own personal fights to yourselves and keep other out of it. Getting people to snoop in YOUR buisness and in YOUR fights DOES NOT MEAN for OTHER PEOPLE to get involved. Getting other people to take your side is something of what a 2-year-old does K..You call that mature? I don't think so...So i'm sorry but I don't think you should really be this person's friend if your going to act like this.