How do you say No? - Page 3

Reese · May 23, 2006, 11:27 PM

I usually find myself typin them up a letter via email. I get too nervous 2 speak 2 them in person..... but usually that ends up makin the next couple of mnths more awkward then it should be.

Nympho · May 23, 2006, 11:32 PM

It really isnt that bad. I use to give them a note in middle school or have a friend do it for me. But when u get older you can't so that anymore and be responsible. Face to face.

cerebrum · May 23, 2006, 11:37 PM

*Looks*.... Wheres the kitty!!!....... *poof*..... Where's Nympho!!!

..... n the women flee once more.... Darn it, thats the 3rd time today.

@ Reese : haha, is that why u havent been returnin my phone calls, jk jk. But I agree with Nympho... its probably best u initiate a face-to-face convo... dont jeopardise ur friendship by decidin 2 send the wrong message like that. ^_^

Nympho · May 23, 2006, 11:41 PM

*puff puff poof* *coughs*

Kittens are in my trench coat, come closer and i will show you them....

Yeah emails tell them they aren't good enough to receive an honest reason/rejection. And its awkward.

cerebrum · May 23, 2006, 11:44 PM

@ Nympho : Tell it like it is, YEAH!!! lol. ^_^

eh?..... awwww, kitty. Uhhh.... Do I really want 2 reach in there to pet it. hehe. ^_^

*pigtaru* · May 24, 2006, 12:02 AM

@Cere and Myssy: you have turned my thread into a flirting ground, lol...go elsewhere!

Fudge · May 24, 2006, 12:29 AM

How do I say 'no'.... well the answer lies just in front of you - I simply quote "No", lol.

Alright my answer 2 u is :
I usually prepare them for my response. Theres nothing worst then blurting out ur confession 2 her in surprise. O_O
Then I'll follow with a statement to ensure she knows where I'm goin.... I'll try to create a comfortable atmosphere throughout it all but not too comfortable or she wouldnt expect it and run off cryin or give me a SMACK. lol.

*Hold.Me.X.Thrill.Me* · May 24, 2006, 04:37 AM

I just can't say no, I just go all scared and avoid them.

This one guy couldn't even get me to talk to him, eventually he got the hint but I felt so mean, I had basically ignored him for a month and he still liked me >.<

oOoOoOoOo That was kinda scary XD

It must be so embarrassing for them, thats why I can't say no. But I don't say yes either. They must just think i'm really weird :P

*equinn* · May 24, 2006, 06:37 AM

ok im to good for you kj i would say sorry but we dont know each other that well and maybe when we do i dont know just maybe but i dont realy know what to say and im a girl and i dont know how to say no either

*rock on* · May 24, 2006, 08:03 AM

there are lots of ways to soay no. i think the best way is to say im sorry but i dont like you like that at this time and if i do later i will go out with you but until than can we pls be friends

Sazzy · May 24, 2006, 09:45 AM

hummm.... i think my responce would be " i am flattered that you see in my that but i am; A) not looking for a relationship right because i need time to my self
b) I am sorry i have a lot of my mind and a relationship would be too much for soory.
c) i only see you as a friend and nothing more.
Of course i would say sorry afterwards because i would feel totally mean to them for rejecting them!

May 23, 2006, 11:27 PM	#23 (permalink)
Reese Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: "Enigma" Posts: 228 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,228	Re: How do you say No? I usually find myself typin them up a letter via email. I get too nervous 2 speak 2 them in person..... but usually that ends up makin the next couple of mnths more awkward then it should be. __________________
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Nympho Upcoming Legend Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: I get bored easily Posts: 511 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 701	Re: How do you say No? It really isnt that bad. I use to give them a note in middle school or have a friend do it for me. But when u get older you can't so that anymore and be responsible. Face to face. __________________ I'm a glass child. I am Hannah's regrets. Monster.
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cerebrum Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Some part of the universe. Posts: 295 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Credits: 949	Re: How do you say No? Looks.... Wheres the kitty!!!....... poof..... Where's Nympho!!! ..... n the women flee once more.... Darn it, thats the 3rd time today. @ Reese : haha, is that why u havent been returnin my phone calls, jk jk. But I agree with Nympho... its probably best u initiate a face-to-face convo... dont jeopardise ur friendship by decidin 2 send the wrong message like that. ^_^ __________________ Sig courtesy goes to : Sazuka. [Sig team]
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Nympho Upcoming Legend Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: I get bored easily Posts: 511 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 701	Re: How do you say No? puff puff poof coughs Kittens are in my trench coat, come closer and i will show you them.... Yeah emails tell them they aren't good enough to receive an honest reason/rejection. And its awkward. __________________ I'm a glass child. I am Hannah's regrets. Monster. Last edited by Nympho; May 23, 2006 at 11:47 PM.
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May 24, 2006, 12:02 AM	#28 (permalink)
pigtaru Otaku Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Elk Grove, CA USA Posts: 400 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts Credits: 534	Re: How do you say No? @Cere and Myssy: you have turned my thread into a flirting ground, lol...go elsewhere! __________________ o~Piggy-san~o
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Fudge Newbie Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 8 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 110	Re: How do you say No? How do I say 'no'.... well the answer lies just in front of you - I simply quote "No", lol. Alright my answer 2 u is : I usually prepare them for my response. Theres nothing worst then blurting out ur confession 2 her in surprise. O_O Then I'll follow with a statement to ensure she knows where I'm goin.... I'll try to create a comfortable atmosphere throughout it all but not too comfortable or she wouldnt expect it and run off cryin or give me a SMACK. lol. __________________ WHAT THE FUDGE!!!!
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