i need help with my social/love life

tifa4cloud · May 26, 2006, 04:40 PM

hello everyone. I split up with my boyfriend last summer and i suggested that we remained friends but that just didnt happen and the problem is that i was good friends with his friends and since we broke up his friends dont talk to me no more. Then when i found out he had a girlfriend i got so jealous and now i regret breaking up with him. I just feel so emo......help!

Exoparadapsyphobia · May 26, 2006, 04:41 PM

What do you need advice on? You aren't being to clear about that.

tifa4cloud · May 26, 2006, 04:45 PM

oh right!lol! i just wanted to know can anyone give me advice on how we could be friends again and to get the idea of me and him being together again

Shu · May 26, 2006, 04:48 PM

say hi to him when u pass him in the halls at school. also make sure u make good eye contact.

tifa4cloud · May 26, 2006, 04:50 PM

yeah ive tried that but like when im near him i kinda feel awkward and saying hi is a big challenge

Shu · May 26, 2006, 04:51 PM

youll have to muster up the courage. there will be no way to get close to him again if u cant even say hi.

tifa4cloud · May 26, 2006, 04:52 PM

yeah thanx! any tips on how to build self esteem

Exoparadapsyphobia · May 26, 2006, 04:52 PM

Well on situations like this one I would suggest letting the perdicament simmer down for awhile. Try giving everyone some space to make them feel more comfortable and then approach them in a positive gesture, however if his friends become more agressive or negative towards you I would suggest completely ignoring them and avoiding doing anything to make the situation worse. It is quite possible you can still be friends with your ex if you don't do anything to insult him, like criticizing his new girlfriend etc. If you would like me to give more detailed advice I would need to more details about the situation.

If you want to build self esteem try dressing in nicer clothes, approaching new people, working out, doing outdoor activities etc.

AniManga Hound · May 26, 2006, 06:06 PM

How about you find somebody new? It's not like you honestly are in love with him. Oh, yeah, highschool/young love, maybe, but that's not real love.

viper11025 · May 26, 2006, 06:15 PM

Ok heres my take on it.
1. Ask his friends why they avoid you.
2. Find out if he did this to make you mad.If so ignore him for good.
3. Find out what the other girl thinks.
4. Find a New Person if you really want to leave him and leave him if he is doing this to make you mad.
5. Live a happy life.

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tifa4cloud · May 27, 2006, 05:19 AM

ill try thanx everyone *hugs*

May 26, 2006, 04:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
tifa4cloud Diamond in the Rough Join Date: May 2006 Location: ireland Posts: 166 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,546	i need help with my social/love life hello everyone. I split up with my boyfriend last summer and i suggested that we remained friends but that just didnt happen and the problem is that i was good friends with his friends and since we broke up his friends dont talk to me no more. Then when i found out he had a girlfriend i got so jealous and now i regret breaking up with him. I just feel so emo......help! __________________ thank you equinn
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Exoparadapsyphobia Sophist of Satire Join Date: May 2006 Location: Always where I'm not supposed to be. Posts: 530 Thanks: 1 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts Credits: 5,533	Re: i need help with my social/love life What do you need advice on? You aren't being to clear about that. __________________
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tifa4cloud Diamond in the Rough Join Date: May 2006 Location: ireland Posts: 166 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,546	Re: i need help with my social/love life oh right!lol! i just wanted to know can anyone give me advice on how we could be friends again and to get the idea of me and him being together again __________________ thank you equinn
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Shu Upcoming Legend Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 563 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Credits: 749	Re: i need help with my social/love life say hi to him when u pass him in the halls at school. also make sure u make good eye contact.
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tifa4cloud Diamond in the Rough Join Date: May 2006 Location: ireland Posts: 166 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,546	Re: i need help with my social/love life yeah ive tried that but like when im near him i kinda feel awkward and saying hi is a big challenge __________________ thank you equinn
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May 26, 2006, 04:51 PM	#6 (permalink)
Shu Upcoming Legend Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 563 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Credits: 749	Re: i need help with my social/love life youll have to muster up the courage. there will be no way to get close to him again if u cant even say hi.
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tifa4cloud Diamond in the Rough Join Date: May 2006 Location: ireland Posts: 166 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,546	Re: i need help with my social/love life yeah thanx! any tips on how to build self esteem __________________ thank you equinn
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Exoparadapsyphobia Sophist of Satire Join Date: May 2006 Location: Always where I'm not supposed to be. Posts: 530 Thanks: 1 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts Credits: 5,533	Re: i need help with my social/love life Well on situations like this one I would suggest letting the perdicament simmer down for awhile. Try giving everyone some space to make them feel more comfortable and then approach them in a positive gesture, however if his friends become more agressive or negative towards you I would suggest completely ignoring them and avoiding doing anything to make the situation worse. It is quite possible you can still be friends with your ex if you don't do anything to insult him, like criticizing his new girlfriend etc. If you would like me to give more detailed advice I would need to more details about the situation. If you want to build self esteem try dressing in nicer clothes, approaching new people, working out, doing outdoor activities etc. __________________ Last edited by Exoparadapsyphobia; May 26, 2006 at 04:55 PM.
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AniManga Hound Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 451 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 406	Re: i need help with my social/love life How about you find somebody new? It's not like you honestly are in love with him. Oh, yeah, highschool/young love, maybe, but that's not real love. __________________ Keep eating so many dogs and you're bound to be Communist
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viper11025 Under Surveilance Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: " Unknown & Unseen" Posts: 355 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 381	Re: i need help with my social/love life Ok heres my take on it. 1. Ask his friends why they avoid you. 2. Find out if he did this to make you mad.If so ignore him for good. 3. Find out what the other girl thinks. 4. Find a New Person if you really want to leave him and leave him if he is doing this to make you mad. 5. Live a happy life. (By the way look at my wish, if you wish the same copy it into your sig)
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May 27, 2006, 05:19 AM	#11 (permalink)
tifa4cloud Diamond in the Rough Join Date: May 2006 Location: ireland Posts: 166 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,546	Re: i need help with my social/love life ill try thanx everyone hugs __________________ thank you equinn
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