AHHHH!!! Sumimasen! The Love Letter got responses and the Shadow of Love and the Defender of Love were not here!!! >_< AHHH!!!
*quick response syndrom*
First off, Jet Black, watch it, we have to hire you to answer that. ^_^
As the Shadow Response: ... yes, you can wait... sabotage her current relationship, and it falls you have this to agree on: if they couldn't keep their relationship even through your sabotage, then their relationship wasn't true.
But that's only a dark answer, isn't it? Afterall, then you have this to question yourself: How wonderful is your love that it took deceit to gain her love?
... you may admit, but wouldn't that cause more burden upon the girl? Making her confused, making her stress, making her not know what to think? Afterall, what if she cares deeply for you, and now she's questioning if she can be happier with you than with the person she's with? What a burden!
In the end, she decides, right?
Well, what if you wait? Wait for their relationship to go sour, and here you are, staying quiet until the end... keeping your love inside a tiny box, knowing from it will bloom a wonderful creature...
But if they never break, you'll be holding it forever, correct? And you'll probably marry someone only 2ND to your heart... that's going to be horrible to the one you marry. OR! You don't marry at all, and stay by her side as a friend... torturing yourself day in and day out... wishing you were with her...
..however, would you really wish to wait? If the two break their relationship, #1: Doesn't that mean that if she goes with you, she might be using you to forget about him? and #2: Would you really rather wait for her to feel heartbreak before she gets with you? What true sorrow! How could you?!
Or you may just tell her and walk away... walk away from her and never see her again... being glad that you told her, you are now at peace... but you can never see her again, for you have complicated not only her relationship with her boyfriend, but your relationship with her as a friend.
Or! You may fight for your love! Show her how much you love her! Show her how much more you can love her than her "boyfriend"! ...it may be a risk, and you may be crazy, but if you can't have her, you'll end up crazy anyways!
... in the end, it's your choice...
Will you let things keep going?
Will you take her away and show her true love?
What will you do?
..... in the end, wouldn't you just wish her to be the happiest? ..... it could be you who can do it, right? Maybe you're the only one who can make her the happiest...
...but with that answer, comes this thought: ... you can let her know what true love is through words or even simple actions... not referring to yourself, but to her... she'll know what true love is, and it's her choice in the end.........
^__^ Did that answer, kedar?