Thread: My Ex's Best friend.O_O

i know how about sucking on a lemon.................that always helps

Well, I know that ignoring it won' make the problem go away. I think u need to resolve ur feelings though before talkin' ta either one of them, however u r goin' ta run inta them eventually and it's gonna come up in time. If I were in ur situation I would resolve ta jus' be friends wit' 'em, it's better ta be friends wit' the both of 'em than ta only have one of 'em. But that's jus' my opinion.

It would seem like ur dilemma lies between the fact that u still hav a thing for ur ex.... that and ur afraid ppl may judge if u decide 2 date ur 'ex's best friend'.
Well for starters... u and ur former bf broke up. He's obviously moved on and as much as u like him, u can do nothing more 2 be with him...unless in future some event brings u both together again, but thats ur own story.
Secondly, u and ur ex's best friend, from wat u tell me r obviously really into each other. Wat prevents u from dating him, is ur afraid ppl may judge u as a result. U really shouldn't let that get 2 u. May I remind u that ur former bf and one of ur friends is dating, and noone judges neither of them for it...hopefully.

Originally Posted by Koketsu

i know how about sucking on a lemon.................that always helps

*gasps* that could work!!!
*takes out a lemon and cuts it open, it squrts in eye* OWWWWWWWWWW*runs around tearing* it burns!
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Originally Posted by Joe Mage

Well, I know that ignoring it won' make the problem go away. I think u need to resolve ur feelings though before talkin' ta either one of them, however u r goin' ta run inta them eventually and it's gonna come up in time. If I were in ur situation I would resolve ta jus' be friends wit' 'em, it's better ta be friends wit' the both of 'em than ta only have one of 'em. But that's jus' my opinion.

yeah, i know i can't keep avoiding them... that is true however... i also have tried just being friends with them both, but thats hard as well, it gets really akward sometimes as well becasue i like them both, and them the same for me.

Originally Posted by Tohru_Punkcess

*gasps* that could work!!!
*takes out a lemon and cuts it open, it squrts in eye* OWWWWWWWWWW*runs around tearing* it burns!
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yeah, i know i can't keep avoiding them... that is true however... i also have tried just being friends with them both, but thats hard as well, it gets really akward sometimes as well becasue i like them both, and them the same for me.

u are a poor lost little child*shakes head*

Originally Posted by cerebrum

It would seem like ur dilemma lies between the fact that u still hav a thing for ur ex.... that and ur afraid ppl may judge if u decide 2 date ur 'ex's best friend'.
Well for starters... u and ur former bf broke up. He's obviously moved on and as much as u like him, u can do nothing more 2 be with him...unless in future some event brings u both together again, but thats ur own story.
Secondly, u and ur ex's best friend, from wat u tell me r obviously really into each other. Wat prevents u from dating him, is ur afraid ppl may judge u as a result. U really shouldn't let that get 2 u. May I remind u that ur former bf and one of ur friends is dating, and noone judges neither of them for it...hopefully.

Yes exactly, He has moved on from me to another girl that he likes and From everyone i know he apperantly still likes me...which is making me hang on to him. Even tho im the one who broke up with him(long story) and yeah we are totaly into eachother and i guess i am a bit afraid of how people will judge me but my main problem is how i am going to judge myself... i would feel like a totally horrible person for going out with someone whom i "like" when i still have such stong feeling for my ex. And i dont think anyone judges the other two... also thanks for your thoughts

Originally Posted by Tohru_Punkcess

yeah, i know i can't keep avoiding them... that is true however... i also have tried just being friends with them both, but thats hard as well, it gets really akward sometimes as well becasue i like them both, and them the same for me.

What Cerebrum has a point too. It makes sense what he says, but what I said is what I'd do if I were in ur situation. That doesn' mean it works for evry1. If u feel compelled to date ur ex's bf, then do it. Ur ex should understand; especially if he's moved on.