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    When do you feel your ready for relationship?

    Hey what's going on brothers. This whole week has been bothering me with questions about relationship and seeking out that special someone. I recently started hanging out with this girl about a couple weeks ago. And we find each other both attractive but she wanted to avoid a relationship between us because I'm to modern. Meaning that I demand sex...which is totally wrong. the only thing I demand is 2 things and I speak for both male and female that are in relationship and that is Loyalty and Honesty. For some reason she now has a boyfriend and things are not working out. She told me that the longest relationship she's ever been in was a month. Is she to demanding or is she afraid of a relationship. The Truth wants to know from you guys and girls want do you expect from your lover. When is O.K. to say I love you to that person.

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    Re: When do you feel your ready for relationship?

    Hm....

    Here's what I think...

    In order to have a relationship, you both must be ready for one. Relationships take a lot of work, and I would not recommend it unless you feel that you are done "exploring" the entire ocean. I would recommend against your initial feelings for this person, as it is not real love and is more likely lust disguise.

    Loyalty and Honesty are the same thing, so you're only demanding 1 thing. Haha. But yeah, Loyalty/Honesty are key to have a relationship, without trust, there isn't one.

    Conclusion: Don't settle down unless you are sure you're not going to explore other options...if there are other options...feel them out and end things. Best of luck.

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    Re: When do you feel your ready for relationship?

    Well, my advice on this particular subject may not be too helpful, most likely just adding on to the confusion, I'll put in a word or two.
    I'd have to say that it's half on your part, and half on the other's part. It's your choice whether you'd like to start a relationship. If one would like to, it's not an obligation for the other to say "Yes!" But, most likely, if one of you wants a relationship, and the other does not, it just might mean that you just aren't ready for it yet. There isn't anything wrong with that, it just means you're not ready, not just yet.
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    Re: When do you feel your ready for relationship?

    For me i feel im ready for a relationship when i know i can have time to commit to the person and i know im mature enough to balance my love life and school/social life as well

    ...Impulsive...

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    Re: When do you feel your ready for relationship?

    when your sure you are in, love with this person! if your not and you just say it, i means nothing
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    Re: When do you feel your ready for relationship?

    When your in love with the person of coruse!!






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    Re: When do you feel your ready for relationship?

    Hi the Truth! To determine whether your heart is ready for a relationship it must be ready for creating romance... if the heart is still hurting from a previous relationship, stress, and emotional sea storm then it is not ready to take on a relationship. Other parts of your life has to fall in place first and if you are where you should be in life can help determine whether or not you are ready to become steady or pop the question. Two people must also be comfortable enough to be honest to each other without feeling judged... then its on to creating wonderful memories with each other and making love. When the moment comes people know. There is an air of magic and kismet and things just fall into place. Trust your instincts and follow your heart!

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    Re: When do you feel your ready for relationship?

    i agree rebound relationships
    arnt a smart idea becuase you
    just end up worse off than you
    did beofre you started the howl relationship
    you should tread the waters very carfully beofre
    saying those 3 big words because there not words
    to be played with
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    I'll be the one to protect you from a will to survive and a voice of reason
    I'll be the one to protect you from your enemies and your choices son
    They're one in the same, I must isolate you...
    Isolate and save you from yourself

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