is it wrong for a 16 year old to date a 21 year old?

sailor princess · Apr 22, 2006, 11:43 PM

iI know there are some sailormoon fans so can you all answer this question? is it wrong for seren to date darien whos 21?

just asking
(im new so can you guys please be nice?)
thanks!

(by the way, i accedentaly made 3 of the same threads by cliking my save button so many times. sorry! how do you delete?)

*Mr. K* · Apr 22, 2006, 11:52 PM

nah... I guess if the other has not bad thought about the whole thing. Then I guess it's okay.

HibikiLink · Apr 23, 2006, 03:50 AM

I'll let the fact go that it's an anime no as long as they love each other it should be all good

iazndragoni yan · Apr 23, 2006, 01:38 PM

i dont think its wrong. just as long as theres no sex involved or anything illegal.

Priestess Angel · Apr 23, 2006, 01:42 PM

No, I don't think it is bad. If I did then I guess I would be insulting my parents. They have a ten year difference in their age. As long as the difference isn't like twenty years or something I don't think age should be that important. It should be the person that decides if you go out with them or not. Age shouldn't make any difference unless it is totally immoral.

Lighting Count · Apr 23, 2006, 01:48 PM

i would say its wrong, but it doesn't mean people don't do it

*ketaro* · Apr 23, 2006, 01:51 PM

well i don't see why not, it is anime anyway. Though, darien is doing lolita stuff.

mixed fighter girl · Apr 23, 2006, 01:54 PM

hmm... well if they really love another, i guess, but they shouldn't have sex! they can have a relationship but no sex. *i'm sounding like my mother oh no* lol

Shichiya · Apr 24, 2006, 09:43 AM

well in my country they are a legal couple plus i dont see why they can't be together they look so cute together and i seen big age gaps

pigtaru · Apr 24, 2006, 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sailor princess

iI know there are some sailormoon fans so can you all answer this question? is it wrong for seren to date darien whos 21?

just asking
(im new so can you guys please be nice?)
thanks!

(by the way, i accedentaly made 3 of the same threads by cliking my save button so many times. sorry! how do you delete?)

Ok, in an anime, I think that's fine. Because it's new real. But in real life, a 16 year old dating a 21 year old can be tricky. Not to say that it can't be done or it shouldn't be done, but it's tricky.

Both people would have to be mentally at the same level. Usually, dating here is OK, but relationship wise, I'm not too sure about that. 16 year olds, most of the time, need time to grow, mentally. And as the younger person grows older, they begin to change. So by the time they are 21, they might not be the same person who fell in love with the 21 year old to start with. I would advice against it in real world scenarios.

To sum it up:

Anime 16&21 = OK
Anime 16&Whatever = OK
Real World 16&21 = I wouldn't do it.
Real World 21-Whatever = Fine by me.

GeminiEntity · Apr 24, 2006, 09:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pigtaru

Ok, in an anime, I think that's fine. Because it's new real. But in real life, a 16 year old dating a 21 year old can be tricky. Not to say that it can't be done or it shouldn't be done, but it's tricky.

Both people would have to be mentally at the same level. Usually, dating here is OK, but relationship wise, I'm not too sure about that. 16 year olds, most of the time, need time to grow, mentally. And as the younger person grows older, they begin to change. So by the time they are 21, they might not be the same person who fell in love with the 21 year old to start with. I would advice against it in real world scenarios.

To sum it up:

Anime 16&21 = OK
Anime 16&Whatever = OK
Real World 16&21 = I wouldn't do it.
Real World 21-Whatever = Fine by me.

I agree with that.

Mentality is what makes the age difference tricky.

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