is it wrong for a 16 year old to date a 21 year old? - Page 2

Star Girl · Apr 24, 2006, 09:58 PM

Absalutly...I mean i wouldnt mind dating a guy like 8 years older than me. Doesnt bother me one bit, maybe it does seem awkword but i dont it changes anything.
just cuz serena and darein are 5 yaers apart XD i mean c'mon for the sake of love.
My boyfriend is 3 years older than me i dont see anything wrong wit it.

*Blade X* · Apr 25, 2006, 08:13 AM

Unless there's actual love in there where the sex doesnt matter but rather the relationship. Wen they both are willing to sacrifice anything for their love. I dun think tht's anything wrong unless the guy is really after sex then tht is wrong.

*Soshi Kitai* · Apr 25, 2006, 08:25 AM

^_^ ....heeeheee, when I was an "playboy" I had 22 year olds going for me when I was 15! ....... or was it 14?

XD Older women are funny... XD

<_< ... >_> ... <_<

^_^ I really don't think love has an age. If you love them, you love them.

However, I would discourage a 16-year-old to go with a 21-year-old.
For what reason? Not for the sake of the 16-year-old... but for the sake of the 21-year-old. And I'm serious.

Do you realize that because the kid's only 16, he/she might not have completely matured yet? May not really know what they want in life? In love?

Do you realize that the lower the age the higher the percentage that the kid will break that 21-year-old's heart?

(Sorry if you're 16... but seriously, in an adult's view of this topic, you really are just a kid... sorry)

The kid hasn't found love completely yet!
The kid hasn't "tried all 31 flavors of Baskin Robins" yet! (haha, I loved that phrase)
What if the kid finds someone "better"? What if the kid finds someone "more reasonable"?

The kid will realize how immature he/she was and realize that the 21-year-old "just isn't the right one" for them! >__<

...... breaking the 21-year-old's heart... just like that...

... ... ... ... >_< you kids suck! (JK) XD The end.

Mistress Isis · Apr 25, 2006, 08:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sailor princess

iI know there are some sailormoon fans so can you all answer this question? is it wrong for seren to date darien whos 21?

just asking
(im new so can you guys please be nice?)
thanks!

(by the way, i accedentaly made 3 of the same threads by cliking my save button so many times. sorry! how do you delete?)

lol to tell u the truth, my mom was 16 when she gave birth to me and my dad was 22, so yea...

*anime_being_god* · Apr 25, 2006, 01:52 PM

personally i feel nothing wrong about that at all , but i know some parents will

*rematche* · Apr 26, 2006, 08:27 AM

love holds no bounds and age dosen't matter.
but it depends to the situation.

AniManga Hound · Apr 26, 2006, 06:11 PM

Is it wrong for a fourteen-year-old girl to have sex with an, I'm assuming, 20-something year old woman?

Is it wrong for a fourteen year old girl to have sex with her father? Illigitimate father, but father figure, nonetheless.

No. Taboo, most probably, but not wrong, according to nature.

The above two things are from Mai-Otome, by the way. (Tomoe and Shizuru/Nina and Sergey).

kite · Apr 28, 2006, 06:06 AM

i think its ok the only problem i see with people dating older people is if one person is in there 20s and the other is in there 50s
(i saw what i just said yesterday)

if there that far apart on age then they should find someone else

XxStormySkyexX · Apr 28, 2006, 06:28 AM

i believe that is incredibly wrong. at least at that age. I mean if she was 18 and he was 23, that would be alot better. and it would also be legal. Im not saying that 5 yeaRs difference in age is totally wrong, if so, my parents would be incredible wrong.(9 years apart) i just dont like the idea of a 16 year old with a 21 year old.

HieisLove · May 27, 2006, 05:51 PM

For some reason I don't think its wrong. I mean I myself never dated someone over 17

viper11025 · May 27, 2006, 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lighting Count

i would say its wrong, but it doesn't mean people don't do it

I have to agree.
It seems out of age,anyways I dont like it if you date asomeone over or under 3 years of your age.
Unless of course theres REALLY love between you two.
Also I need to remind you,did you know young 21-30 year old weoman marry old 50+ men for there money?
Wierd dont you think?

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