Uhhh... yeah not really right. There are different levels of maturity, but a 16 and 21 year old? Maybe too much of a gap for me. I guess. I don't know.
okay first of all nena your 15 so you shouldnt even be dating older guys even if your mature. If soemthing happens they probably wont take you seriously and keep doing whatever there doing O_o lol and yes im sure it could have been even both the girl AND the boy who planned it before hand.who knows.
c'on if she was 25 and him 30 this would be a non issue... the bottom line is their true feelings if they love eachother and they are both mature enough to handle the relationship it should not be a problem.... and i can date older guys and be taken seriously, i would not get into a relationship with a guy that did not take me serious, nor would i rush into a relationship just to be with someone, nor would i do anything inapropiate for a girl my age..... now if you lack the maturity to have a serious non sexual relationship with an older person, then dont do it...
Sorry to be an ass on this situation, but someone who is in their early teens is not mature in any sense. They may be mature as far as their age group, but as far as being an adult they are not. That is not to say that they can not be more mature than someone that is older than them, even someone 30 can be immature, but that does not mean they themselves are mature enough for a serious relationship.