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    Ok now that you have answered that question about if the mother didn't have an abortion what should she do? Here is another question. When the baby is put up for adoption do you think it has a chance to get adopted more then a little child say 7 and up? If so why is that?


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    Re: Adoption

    More than likely the baby will fair better than an older child. The reason? Most adopting parents want a child who they can start fresh with, that will not ask uestions and who will naturally think of them as their birth parent. While older children tend to ask more about their own past and seek the adopted parent's answer which they in turn might find hard to answer. But some couples do tend to like the older children.

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    Re: Adoption

    I understand that a baby is easier but do you think it's right that the older children kinda get left out in the cold? Cold meaning pushed aside.
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    Re: Adoption

    They are supposedly nurtured in foster care if they don't have adopted families, but yes it is as it were that they are left in the cold. But the lucky ones who do get homes sometimes have problems that a baby wouldn't. I think thats so unfair to all of them.

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    Re: Adoption

    The only thing that bothers me is the foster homes sometimes they don't care about the kids they are only doing it for the money.
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    Re: Adoption

    Quote Originally Posted by NevesElocin View Post
    More than likely the baby will fair better than an older child. The reason? Most adopting parents want a child who they can start fresh with, that will not ask uestions and who will naturally think of them as their birth parent. While older children tend to ask more about their own past and seek the adopted parent's answer which they in turn might find hard to answer. But some couples do tend to like the older children.
    We have a running joke among my friends that I am going to adopt a fifteen year old, because I don't want to deal with that baby stuff. The counter-point to my joke being that he is going to be permanently angsty.

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    Re: Adoption

    Quote Originally Posted by OdysseanPromise View Post
    We have a running joke among my friends that I am going to adopt a fifteen year old, because I don't want to deal with that baby stuff. The counter-point to my joke being that he is going to be permanently angsty.

    "You're not my real dad!" *slams door*
    one question how old are you and why would you want that? I mean I'm not saying it's bad because one of the older children would be getting adopted but still.
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    Re: Adoption

    Sorry, but im going to have to kill this topic. Not much to debate or even talk about. We all know mothers want babies, not older children. So what we will talk about here then? Not much meat to this topic.

    If another mod wants, they can open if they see fit.

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