Age ummm 3

IDAITAI · May 05, 2008, 09:54 AM

I think that age aint nothin but a number. I know an 17 year old dating a 36 year old im thats pretty crazy but if they care about each other then it shouldnt matter.

NevesElocin · May 05, 2008, 09:57 AM

I absolutely hate it when people do that! No one has the right to tell me my thoughts are unimportant just becuase of how old I am! And so what if I want to date outside of my immmediate age. WHO CARES! It works so give me a break. Okay I'm done.

PhoenixSara · May 05, 2008, 10:08 AM

This is a sad thing when youth per se can't find a venue for their voice and opinion. i am lucky i guess when it comes to my opinions since my mom and my brother touches base with me and ny younger brother. and this is how i want my child to be i want him to be comfortable enough to tell me what he thinks and feels. i think all ages has a lot of things to learn from each other.

Joe Mage · May 05, 2008, 11:43 AM

I agree wit Phoenixsara 'bout the youth not havin' a venue for their voice, adults have a tendency, sometimes, ta forget what it was like for them when they were growin' up. It's understandable that there should b limits and restrictions, but that doesn' mean that children should "only b seen and not heard." I was lucky in the fact that my parents never did that ta me and I try not ta do that ta my niece (although she can b quite the "chatterbox") and nephew. I think that adults need ta remember what it was like ta child again.

Corvus · May 05, 2008, 02:55 PM

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Not that I'm opposed to the rules but apparently this thread which is over two years old has some life to it so I'm going to provide a compromise.

The rules are that we're not allowed to post in thread more then two weeks old let alone two whole freaking years ^^ but, from the ammount of comments it recieved in one day I'd say it's worth re opening.

Not that I'm opposed to the rule of admins or mods in any way, just maybe this still has some life.

Ok so is age really important? Should a number that people associate with your birth year determine your responsibility and who you're allowed to love or not?

That's not exactly what the previous thread had but it's what the previous comments were arguing. Remember good quality comments or the thread will be closed and I'll look like a total jurk, so play nice and be smart, reason out the truth behind the matter. ^^ enjoy!

Shu · May 05, 2008, 03:00 PM

Yes; the brain isn't even fully developed at age 13; therefore, 13 year olds should be dating 25 year olds.

However, I don't see a problem with 13 year olds dating 16 year olds because that age difference is marginal.

PhoenixSara · May 05, 2008, 03:14 PM

I really don't know about the age thing but i believe that kids should also be heard am just luckier i guess that my folks touched base with me on how i felt on somethings than some people are.

i guess the idea here is some adults should be learning form the younger generation as well it's a give an take relationship.

Corvus · May 05, 2008, 03:46 PM

ok I'm guessing that there was some modding that allowed comments to be posted in this thread before my own? am I wrong?

I just remembered that I forgot my own personal values on this topic.
I am personally against the restrictions being placed on things according to age by the govt. Parents saying so is different. However to say that a child is unintelligent just because they are young is ludicrous unsound and is one of the cheif reasons for our society's underdevelopment.

Truth is that children are capable of maturity much sooner then we allow them to. Also, grown adults are as immature as any child some are more mature and some less just like children. I don't propose that an 8 year old be allowed to rule the world but, I think just because someone is younger then 18 doesn't mean that they should be discredited as naieve either. I know for a fact that I arrived at good conclusions long before some adults but it wasn't acceptable comming from a kid so it took them twice as long to come up with a solution of their own try it out then settle on my solution anyways.

That's my piece.

mere · May 05, 2008, 03:59 PM

I think as long as both sides are happy it souldn't matter the ages between the members in the couple. Everyone is capable of makeing their own dicisions and should do as they wish, after all isues like this do not harm anyone but couple itself...so y would it matter to us..i mean everyone has free will..and even if it is a mistake they will learn from the experience...but who's to say it wouldn't work out
After all far back in time 40-50 year old males would pick their wife which would be 13-20 years of age...so it could work..just..ya

IDAITAI · May 06, 2008, 09:04 AM

There is no reason to separate people by there age if they want to talk or have relations with someone older its there own bussiness.

PhoenixSara · May 06, 2008, 09:19 AM

Kids from all walks of life or no matter where are capable of making their own decision, there are parents who want to believe that their kids need them when it's the other way around there are parents who son't admit they need their kids more than the kids needing them. which is a common parental syndrome ( common parental need syndrome) that some parents forget how they felt when they were younger and unheard.

I think parents are only there to guide not command

May 05, 2008, 09:54 AM	#1 (permalink)
IDAITAI Newbie Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: in the hidden sand village Posts: 32 Thanks: 1 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Credits: 948	Age ummm 3 I think that age aint nothin but a number. I know an 17 year old dating a 36 year old im thats pretty crazy but if they care about each other then it shouldnt matter.
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May 05, 2008, 09:57 AM	#2 (permalink)
NevesElocin ~The Mistress~ Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Hell Posts: 683 Thanks: 14 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts Credits: 9,768	Re: age I absolutely hate it when people do that! No one has the right to tell me my thoughts are unimportant just becuase of how old I am! And so what if I want to date outside of my immmediate age. WHO CARES! It works so give me a break. Okay I'm done. __________________ My love for you only grows with time...I want to create something beautiful with you.
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PhoenixSara Upcoming Legend Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: The deepest Abyss of the Ocean Posts: 519 Thanks: 20 Thanked 19 Times in 19 Posts Credits: 18,810	Re: age This is a sad thing when youth per se can't find a venue for their voice and opinion. i am lucky i guess when it comes to my opinions since my mom and my brother touches base with me and ny younger brother. and this is how i want my child to be i want him to be comfortable enough to tell me what he thinks and feels. i think all ages has a lot of things to learn from each other. __________________ 1 day, you look a person & see more than you did the day b4 like a switch was flickered somewhere & the friend is suddenly the only person you can imagine yourself with. Clan Rainstorm 2nd Company, Kunoichi Division Leader. 5 Kunai
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Joe Mage Mage of Eternity Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: In the end, it doesn' really matter. Posts: 841 Thanks: 23 Thanked 21 Times in 21 Posts Credits: 29,444	Re: age I agree wit Phoenixsara 'bout the youth not havin' a venue for their voice, adults have a tendency, sometimes, ta forget what it was like for them when they were growin' up. It's understandable that there should b limits and restrictions, but that doesn' mean that children should "only b seen and not heard." I was lucky in the fact that my parents never did that ta me and I try not ta do that ta my niece (although she can b quite the "chatterbox") and nephew. I think that adults need ta remember what it was like ta child again. __________________ "Believe in yourself, if in nothing else." My myspace page: www.myspace.com/joemage
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PhoenixSara Upcoming Legend Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: The deepest Abyss of the Ocean Posts: 519 Thanks: 20 Thanked 19 Times in 19 Posts Credits: 18,810	Re: Age ummm 3 I really don't know about the age thing but i believe that kids should also be heard am just luckier i guess that my folks touched base with me on how i felt on somethings than some people are. i guess the idea here is some adults should be learning form the younger generation as well it's a give an take relationship. __________________ 1 day, you look a person & see more than you did the day b4 like a switch was flickered somewhere & the friend is suddenly the only person you can imagine yourself with. Clan Rainstorm 2nd Company, Kunoichi Division Leader. 5 Kunai
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May 05, 2008, 03:46 PM	#8 (permalink)
Corvus Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 271 Thanks: 11 Thanked 25 Times in 24 Posts Credits: 13,162	Re: Age ummm 3 ok I'm guessing that there was some modding that allowed comments to be posted in this thread before my own? am I wrong? I just remembered that I forgot my own personal values on this topic. I am personally against the restrictions being placed on things according to age by the govt. Parents saying so is different. However to say that a child is unintelligent just because they are young is ludicrous unsound and is one of the cheif reasons for our society's underdevelopment. Truth is that children are capable of maturity much sooner then we allow them to. Also, grown adults are as immature as any child some are more mature and some less just like children. I don't propose that an 8 year old be allowed to rule the world but, I think just because someone is younger then 18 doesn't mean that they should be discredited as naieve either. I know for a fact that I arrived at good conclusions long before some adults but it wasn't acceptable comming from a kid so it took them twice as long to come up with a solution of their own try it out then settle on my solution anyways. That's my piece. __________________ ... and join my rebellion against time.
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May 05, 2008, 03:59 PM	#9 (permalink)
mere Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: in thought Posts: 103 Thanks: 4 Thanked 11 Times in 11 Posts Credits: 6,233	Re: Age ummm 3 I think as long as both sides are happy it souldn't matter the ages between the members in the couple. Everyone is capable of makeing their own dicisions and should do as they wish, after all isues like this do not harm anyone but couple itself...so y would it matter to us..i mean everyone has free will..and even if it is a mistake they will learn from the experience...but who's to say it wouldn't work out After all far back in time 40-50 year old males would pick their wife which would be 13-20 years of age...so it could work..just..ya __________________ um....ah.....hi..
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IDAITAI Newbie Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: in the hidden sand village Posts: 32 Thanks: 1 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Credits: 948	Re: Age ummm 3 There is no reason to separate people by there age if they want to talk or have relations with someone older its there own bussiness.
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May 06, 2008, 09:19 AM	#11 (permalink)
PhoenixSara Upcoming Legend Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: The deepest Abyss of the Ocean Posts: 519 Thanks: 20 Thanked 19 Times in 19 Posts Credits: 18,810	Re: Age ummm 3 Kids from all walks of life or no matter where are capable of making their own decision, there are parents who want to believe that their kids need them when it's the other way around there are parents who son't admit they need their kids more than the kids needing them. which is a common parental syndrome ( common parental need syndrome) that some parents forget how they felt when they were younger and unheard. I think parents are only there to guide not command __________________ 1 day, you look a person & see more than you did the day b4 like a switch was flickered somewhere & the friend is suddenly the only person you can imagine yourself with. Clan Rainstorm 2nd Company, Kunoichi Division Leader. 5 Kunai
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