ace_resistance

aw man theres finally a great subject to talk about and i dont know how to start

lets see you do have a point
and from what i see
people will act a certain way all their lifes unless their desire is strong enough to change
or something happens that causes the changes within their brain that makes them want to act differently cause they do not want to lose something, or they want too gain something from it.....
but if their will isnt strong enough to support the changes that go around they will end up resorting to their old habits

ex.....H_M....if they know what im saying about theat and only one person should

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dark angel swordsman

..people do not change. i once thought they could, but no matter what, you are still the same person. there isn't any power to change your fate.

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HolderOfTheDarkChalice

thats true also but i thinkmy will is pretty strong or i would have turned in to a hermit again by now you know a shut in,nut my belife in wanting friends kepts me and is still keeping me from going back,but like i said though i had no suport to do this it came from with in wich make me belvie that you dont eed anyone thelpor make you change for the better its all up to you and what you want for your self .

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Kitsunetsuki

I'm going to make this simple.
My opinion.
LIfe is what you make of it.If you wan't to change something about yourself you can,alot of people tell me others will never change.It's true because the other never try to change.I did change.But for somewhat worse.A friend stabed be in the back and now i'm living with it.But I don't trust people so easily anymore.Now my heart is frozen.

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manga fanatic

i think some peole always have the same personality, it takes soem very strong emotions like love hate or greed to change the way a person acts forever, yet over the course of a day or week people can change but then go back to normal

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Sailor_Saturn

I think someone's behavior depends on what is going on currently in their lives. Could be anything. And depending on the mood that it puts the person in, their behavior towards things can totally change from time to time even if it is just a two day period. Well, that's what I think.

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Heartless_mage

.........using me as an example..............lets see.......


if a person meets another person......and that person is not the best for them.....they can change them in a negative way.........despite the "will" of the person......you will still be changed........little by little........but in the end your whole persona will have changed............

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desxms

I think the process of change is based on teeter tottering between fear and desire. If someone fears change they will not change.. but there will be motivation to change if a desire overrides fear.... like say learning to drive for example. Then one can change from being a non-driver to a driver through a learning process that requires determination and practice. Anyone could do anything if they put their mind to it and applies knowledge to be effective towards a goal if they want it badly enough ...thus the subconscious search for meaning in life for greater quality of life. If desire overrides fear of accidents it is possible to change from pedestrian to driver. The myriad of habits it takes to be a driver presents a challenge that can be overcome with teaching and practice. One can unlearn fear of driving or even habits of smoking, nail biting, or any bad habit by replacing it with a good habit if there is reward to it ( like getting a job for money)not just danger avoidance. Who knows? ...Seals can be trained, shamoo trained, why not humans? People can adapt to new healthy habits through support groups, counseling and most of all through the healing agent of love. It just takes honesty, and letting go of denial, and awareness to know one needs help, accept that help and have a reasonble plan to effect change. Just ask Dr. Phil

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Nympho

This isnt something you just came up with. There is an existing thing. It is called conditioning. But you have some things misconstrewed. People do change from cause and effect. It may be a situation, but people are part of the equation.

Read about conditioning on this link.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operant_conditioning

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doesntmatter23

I dont agree, people do change and they change either due to a tramatic experience, near death exp, or religion, or people in general.

Baal

People change when they want to change or they might change by the natural ways of the hormonas.

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