I agree with the hypno boy
I agree with the hypno boy
I agree too with Hypnotikboy
Which is why u see these tv shows about swapping lifes with a poor person to a rich person.
P.S Twitchy your sig info on the quote from Hellsing is also something that offends Christians....I'm not one tho, but im just respecting ppls religions :D
i suppose it is wrong, but it is nice to get something from your parents every once in a while to know they care for you.
O_o why would it be offensive? Impure souls DO go to hell according to the Bible...Quote:
Originally Posted by Ikawa
o_o But I'm not gonna' go any further than that. (for sake that this is a different topic)
<_< I still think there's nothing wrong about being spoiled... in the end, they will find out...
true but then u could be one of those rare ppl who wind up good in the endQuote:
Originally Posted by hypnotikboy
>_O WHAT DO YOU MEAN RARE?!!
... -.- I know that should be a compliment... but er....
....... >_> Actually, that is a compliment. ^_^ YAY!
... it's not so much that spoiling is bad, it's bad parenting and teachings that are bad..... Spoiling just makes it harder for the child to understand the harshness of life.
Heheh it appears that SK is rather touchy on this subject...Heheh jkjkjk Ehhhh don't hurt me...I'm innocent I swear INNOCENT!
Spoiled or none...all that matters is who that person becomes.
Hmmm.....I probably gunna spoil my kiddies....but also let them stay on their own feet at the same time... There's nothing wrong with Love for your children.
Depends how your spoiled and it also depends on your trait of character.
If you naturally tend to want things without any refusals, then its a bad thing to spoil.
If you tend to ask only what you need when you need it, its okay to be spoiled to a certain degree. Meaning, if you need money to take the bus to go see a friend and you don't have any money, your parents could give you some money to go see someone. If its raining outside and the bus stop if far off and you want your parents to take you, that's okay, but if its a nice day outside, parents shouldn't take their children and let them take the bus or use their bike, giving them exercise and discipline simultaneously.
If you tend to always do things on your own and never ask anything, well that's the best way the crash into problems, but you learn to deal with them so usually you end up in a winning situation with a few problems along the way.
For example, I've been a bit spoiled in the past and I rarely asked for more than I needed usually and sometimes I insisted, but not to the point of making my dad too angry at me. My sister on the other hand is the spoiled brat who braggs till she gets what she wants. I live right now in an apartment, I have a bit of difficulty paying off a few things, but I'm getting better at it and try to make it without asking for my dad's help most of the time. My sister moved into an apartment, can barely pay her bills, has a better salary then me, is paid her food by my dad, has a credit card full at 1500$ and the list goes on.
The example above shows me that was a bit spoiled, but as I have somewhat difficulty at doing things on my own, I run sometimes into problems, but I try to fix them on my own. My sister has been super spoiled and well...she's in over her head.
Moral of the above, it depends on your trait of character all and all if its good to be spoiled or not, that's for your parents to decide and notice.
That's that so happy discussing XD