JustLoseIt

Heheh it appears that SK is rather touchy on this subject...Heheh jkjkjk Ehhhh don't hurt me...I'm innocent I swear INNOCENT!

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Spoiled or none...all that matters is who that person becomes.
Like SK.

Hmmm.....I probably gunna spoil my kiddies....but also let them stay on their own feet at the same time... There's nothing wrong with Love for your children.

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Soldat of life

Depends how your spoiled and it also depends on your trait of character.

If you naturally tend to want things without any refusals, then its a bad thing to spoil.

If you tend to ask only what you need when you need it, its okay to be spoiled to a certain degree. Meaning, if you need money to take the bus to go see a friend and you don't have any money, your parents could give you some money to go see someone. If its raining outside and the bus stop if far off and you want your parents to take you, that's okay, but if its a nice day outside, parents shouldn't take their children and let them take the bus or use their bike, giving them exercise and discipline simultaneously.

If you tend to always do things on your own and never ask anything, well that's the best way the crash into problems, but you learn to deal with them so usually you end up in a winning situation with a few problems along the way.

For example, I've been a bit spoiled in the past and I rarely asked for more than I needed usually and sometimes I insisted, but not to the point of making my dad too angry at me. My sister on the other hand is the spoiled brat who braggs till she gets what she wants. I live right now in an apartment, I have a bit of difficulty paying off a few things, but I'm getting better at it and try to make it without asking for my dad's help most of the time. My sister moved into an apartment, can barely pay her bills, has a better salary then me, is paid her food by my dad, has a credit card full at 1500$ and the list goes on.

The example above shows me that was a bit spoiled, but as I have somewhat difficulty at doing things on my own, I run sometimes into problems, but I try to fix them on my own. My sister has been super spoiled and well...she's in over her head.

Moral of the above, it depends on your trait of character all and all if its good to be spoiled or not, that's for your parents to decide and notice.

That's that so happy discussing XD

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Dark.

I hate brats. Down with spoiling. But really it's not the kid's fault, it's there stupid ass parents.

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Lighting Count

thats what i wanted to say while read this thread it is the parents

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deftbeat

i agree with Dark and LC

hmm... come to think of it, why would parents spoil their kids if they know spoiling is wrong? or maybe it's not wrong to them . .

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Midnight_Moonlight

Being spoiled doesn't have to be wrong. You could turn out two different ways. You could be spoiled and want everything when you grow up and you might break down when you don't get everything. Or you could turn out find and learn to earn everything you want and be succesful in the world.

deftbeat

i suppose so... i mean, you really wouldnt know if your child will come out good if you only refer in spoiling him/her or not.

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hiei9957

im spoiled but noting is worng with me.

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Tanks zyta

Kasai

If you're a spoiled child/person you really on others and not yourself. In the world that is today, reliance on others could lead to a life not worthy.

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rock on

When you are spoiled you dont know what to do when you live by your self. So i think it is wrong to be spoiled.

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hiei9957

I don't rely on any one but my sister. She is more of a mother then my own parents. She looks out for me and i look out for her and she can drive. So, and i dont want to rely on my parents for the rest of my life.

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Tanks zyta