Cutting themselves

*Aya-kun* · Jul 11, 2006, 10:53 PM

.. sorry for starting another lame discussion... Remove this if it is a must.

I'll make it short:

why do some people believe in hurting themselves physically when they are depress?

Does it help?

How do we understand them if they refuse to talk?

Can they be save?

*TaurusDemon23* · Jul 11, 2006, 11:01 PM

I did when I was younger then you kinda grow out of it......Then you think about Wrath.....Cause you can't hold that shxt in forever.......Trust me.....it's hard..you want to lash out at the world....but u know u can't take it out on the world.....So the closest thing around is your body....

*Rave_Grip* · Jul 11, 2006, 11:01 PM

People cut themselves because they think they can get rid of every bad thing when they cut themselves. Some people think that it is the only thing they can do cut out their sins.

Or they might cut themselves because of depression. To get all the anger out on themselves, because they are really annoyed at themselves.

Another reason is that they are mentally sick. Some enjoy pain and suffering.

That's all for now ^_^, nice thread

*Aya-kun* · Jul 11, 2006, 11:21 PM

additional question:

what do the people around the victim do once they get to know of such happening?

...
thanks for posting in and sharing your opinions.

*TaurusDemon23* · Jul 11, 2006, 11:26 PM

Get them high and tell em to get over it........Meds.......Then again it is because it works often enough where its popular. Might not be the best way to deal though....

Drkduality · Jul 11, 2006, 11:26 PM

I never did it myself but i think i understand the mehanics behind it........I thinks for most it's more a distractive thing than an enjoyment thing. Like you feel so bad you can't stand it so u inflict pain on yourself to distract you even if it's only for a few seconds. Like i said though i've never done it so i'm just guessing........

*Aya-kun* · Jul 11, 2006, 11:29 PM

so what you mean literally is diverting their emotional pain into physical pain?

and it may help them to understand themselve any better?

i dont think they are mad. just --- something not normal.. with is... fine. mad is the right word.

*TaurusDemon23* · Jul 11, 2006, 11:32 PM

I'm watchin Saw right now.....Pain & shock is what life is 65 percent of the time.......

Spymonk · Jul 12, 2006, 12:45 AM

Lo,
I think that people today suffers from all kinds of stress u can find or has been named because and this is my theory.
Most of the ppl in the world learn to live their lifes as a normal person and they don't learn to relax and look after the thing that is most important in our daily lifes.
That is a stable functional mind in order to get this mind of ours sorted we need to be able to identifify stress points and situations that causes us to stress because we all are different in a way.
If we are unable ,and sorry for this most young ppl have not learned the tricks of the trade yet that is why they cut themselfs because they don't know or have not experienced a better outlet for their dispare/anger/stress whatever.
Education on how to handle stress is so important that i think we sshould start teaching stresss management to younger ppl every day because they have stress aswell and the problem with that is not that they have it but that they cannot get rid of it.
So in desperation to rid themselfs of the stress they hurt themself and think of ways they could get rid of that stress.
I would say sports and relaxation is the most important ingredient in life but not everybody does those things so we need more technigues to help others and ourselfs to cope.
I play computer games and take my bottled stress and let the aliens bleed for me hehehehehe!!!!!!!!!!!
I also think u can not just be a bystander in this matter u need to intervene in the sense of building confidence with that person so that he/she has someone to talk to in times like that and then and only then can u start showing him/her the way to the light of stress managemnent.

RabidPiraka29 · Jul 12, 2006, 01:08 AM

i think there is point to cutting your self its just a waste of time
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your just putting your self in pain for no reson really or something really stupid

Nympho · Jul 12, 2006, 01:20 AM

Think about when you see an infant crying. The baby does not know the proper way to express what it feels. So it cries out.

So like when your at the age that everything and everyone is changing. You don't know hot to control it. And the only control you have is what you do to you. Some people cut, others get eating disorders, some rebel and get into all sorts of trouble.

In some cases, cutting is a way to try to come back to reality. To know your still here. But when i use to cut, i wanted the hurting to stop when i was depressed. I thought if i could get at it, i could kill it.

Cutting isnt just because your not sure how to express what you feel. But a way to surpress it. After a while you get numb, and cut deeper until it is a void usage of escape.

And then is when you really need help, like when using drugs, when the effect is gone, you go onto stronger things. In a way, cutting is the gateway to ultimate self-destruction.

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TaurusDemon23 Lord Of The Weirdness Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Just swimming in the Ether.... Posts: 1,015 Thanks: 0 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts Credits: 3,800	Re: Cutting themselves I did when I was younger then you kinda grow out of it......Then you think about Wrath.....Cause you can't hold that shxt in forever.......Trust me.....it's hard..you want to lash out at the world....but u know u can't take it out on the world.....So the closest thing around is your body.... Last edited by TaurusDemon23; Jul 11, 2006 at 11:03 PM.
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Rave_Grip Agreement is just A Greed Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Life is an illusion. Posts: 2,346 Thanks: 0 Thanked 11 Times in 11 Posts Credits: 17,103	Re: Cutting themselves People cut themselves because they think they can get rid of every bad thing when they cut themselves. Some people think that it is the only thing they can do cut out their sins. Or they might cut themselves because of depression. To get all the anger out on themselves, because they are really annoyed at themselves. Another reason is that they are mentally sick. Some enjoy pain and suffering. That's all for now ^_^, nice thread __________________ I tried. \| .:~My AO Gallery~:. \| \| .:~The AO Rules~:. \|
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Aya-kun Stray Sheep Join Date: May 2006 Location: Malaysia Posts: 905 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post Credits: 7,163	Re: Cutting themselves additional question: what do the people around the victim do once they get to know of such happening? ... thanks for posting in and sharing your opinions. __________________ [center]+ Sheep Blogs at PaperDiaries +
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TaurusDemon23 Lord Of The Weirdness Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Just swimming in the Ether.... Posts: 1,015 Thanks: 0 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts Credits: 3,800	Re: Cutting themselves Get them high and tell em to get over it........Meds.......Then again it is because it works often enough where its popular. Might not be the best way to deal though.... Last edited by TaurusDemon23; Jul 11, 2006 at 11:29 PM.
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Drkduality Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: in the darkest corners of my mind Posts: 134 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 262	Re: Cutting themselves I never did it myself but i think i understand the mehanics behind it........I thinks for most it's more a distractive thing than an enjoyment thing. Like you feel so bad you can't stand it so u inflict pain on yourself to distract you even if it's only for a few seconds. Like i said though i've never done it so i'm just guessing........ __________________ I like this Sig =P
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Aya-kun Stray Sheep Join Date: May 2006 Location: Malaysia Posts: 905 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post Credits: 7,163	Re: Cutting themselves so what you mean literally is diverting their emotional pain into physical pain? and it may help them to understand themselve any better? i dont think they are mad. just --- something not normal.. with is... fine. mad is the right word. __________________ [center]+ Sheep Blogs at PaperDiaries +
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TaurusDemon23 Lord Of The Weirdness Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Just swimming in the Ether.... Posts: 1,015 Thanks: 0 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts Credits: 3,800	Re: Cutting themselves I'm watchin Saw right now.....Pain & shock is what life is 65 percent of the time.......
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Spymonk Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: I live in South Africa and i was born in Pretoria. Posts: 463 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 225	Re: Cutting themselves Lo, I think that people today suffers from all kinds of stress u can find or has been named because and this is my theory. Most of the ppl in the world learn to live their lifes as a normal person and they don't learn to relax and look after the thing that is most important in our daily lifes. That is a stable functional mind in order to get this mind of ours sorted we need to be able to identifify stress points and situations that causes us to stress because we all are different in a way. If we are unable ,and sorry for this most young ppl have not learned the tricks of the trade yet that is why they cut themselfs because they don't know or have not experienced a better outlet for their dispare/anger/stress whatever. Education on how to handle stress is so important that i think we sshould start teaching stresss management to younger ppl every day because they have stress aswell and the problem with that is not that they have it but that they cannot get rid of it. So in desperation to rid themselfs of the stress they hurt themself and think of ways they could get rid of that stress. I would say sports and relaxation is the most important ingredient in life but not everybody does those things so we need more technigues to help others and ourselfs to cope. I play computer games and take my bottled stress and let the aliens bleed for me hehehehehe!!!!!!!!!!! I also think u can not just be a bystander in this matter u need to intervene in the sense of building confidence with that person so that he/she has someone to talk to in times like that and then and only then can u start showing him/her the way to the light of stress managemnent.
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Nympho Upcoming Legend Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: I get bored easily Posts: 511 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 701	Re: Cutting themselves Think about when you see an infant crying. The baby does not know the proper way to express what it feels. So it cries out. So like when your at the age that everything and everyone is changing. You don't know hot to control it. And the only control you have is what you do to you. Some people cut, others get eating disorders, some rebel and get into all sorts of trouble. In some cases, cutting is a way to try to come back to reality. To know your still here. But when i use to cut, i wanted the hurting to stop when i was depressed. I thought if i could get at it, i could kill it. Cutting isnt just because your not sure how to express what you feel. But a way to surpress it. After a while you get numb, and cut deeper until it is a void usage of escape. And then is when you really need help, like when using drugs, when the effect is gone, you go onto stronger things. In a way, cutting is the gateway to ultimate self-destruction. __________________ I'm a glass child. I am Hannah's regrets. Monster.
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