Peach_follows

Um.. I have 2 boys. Once they hit about 15 ,16,... I may outweigh them because Im overweight. But Im pretty sure they'll be stronger. (not that Im affraid). But once kids turn into teens, keeping them inline should probably be more of a mental thing, and less of a physical one.

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OdysseanPromise

There certainly is something to be said for proper discilpline: I don't think there is enough of it.

I know if I did some of that crap enumerated in the original post, I would have not been in a good place. Acting like that (latching onto legs, biting knees), is not great behavior toward your parents, towards a stranger, forget it.

I don't know. A friend of mine has a five year old little brother. We speculate that it is because there is such a difference between ages that his mum forgot or has a hard time enforcing two levels of maternal care, between letting go of the son leaving the nest and the son who is just going into pre school and whatnot.

When I see the kid and the lack of discilpline he shows (coupled with the serial killer tendancies he has shown), I either want to spank the tar out of him, or exorcise his demons.

I train every day for the moment the demons take over and I must come down from my home in the mountains to smite him. As per The Prophecy.

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atomik_sprout

I say WHOOP THAT ASS!!! LOL! *Just jokin' around*

I think that dicsipline is highly important, but so is being your child's friend. You can be a friend to your kid and still dicsipline them. If your child is out of pocket, then put him/her in thier place. If you have a disobedient child, then do somethin' about it! Ground them, take thier video games away, cut off phone and TV privileges--hell, spank 'em once or twice (don't just haul off and beat the piss out of them though)!!

But don't let your kid go undicsiplined. That turns good kids into a-hole adults.

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SousukeSagara

Children must not be disciplined, yet because they are only children. .
And children obey whatever their parents says(If they grew with care and displine or should I say good manners from their parents and they are not spoiled). . With this, they can just stop their child/ren by just a word or a stare. .
Disciplined is just a optional suggestion, if you can't stop your child then I guess I will suggest it. .

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divine_punishment

Well, I'm not advocating violence, of course, but children do need to be corrected when they make a mistake. How else are they supposed to learn what is acceptable? I grew with love and care, taught always to have good manners, but that doesn't mean I didn't, as my sister says, "push the envelope." Of course, that was when I was MUCH younger. If my mother hadn't told me that "that word is bad" or "don't slap your sister, even if she bites you," I would not be the mature adult I am today.

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SousukeSagara

Yes, they must learn that. .
Because if they don't, they will grow just like their parents did. . Or maybe that's their parents want to be when they grow. . It depends on them, because if they don't want their children to grow like them in the near future. . Then they will avoid it and teach them whats right. .

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Familyguyfan2

More kids need to be disciplined! They think they can do what they want. If I had a child and they misbehaved I would spank them! Not just let them do it and embarrass me. So, I would punish them,but not beat them.

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Taraqs

In my family If i even rolled my eyes at my grand mother my butt would be sore for so long it wouldn't be funny. My family is no nonsense you better know who your talking to and what rank you are.

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lebasiara

The dicipline now a days has lost its meaning... plus the modern phychology is saying that parents that dicipline their children (the old fashion way) are causing "traumas" to those kids... the reality though is other... by not applying dicipline the kids are growing up without rules... and added to that the kids are listening outside that the parents are to be "lovely and patience"... and that they should be able to "be themselves" (even if being themselves includes to yell at their parents)... *sarcasm* Oh excuse me... they are not yelling at their parents... they are "expressing themselves their way".... I am pretty sure you all have heard that one...

Parents should recover their authorithy... they have no authorithy now a days... if they want their kids to be social ppl and not criminals...
Kids are learning at home that there is "no authorithy" or that the authorithy means nothing... so breaking the law it is not that bad then... see my point? Parents that do not dicipline in early ages are training criminals for the future...

My parents diciplined me the old fashion way... and I have no traumas that I know of... however I do have values and respect for others... specially if those others have some sort of authorithy....

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Descended From Darkness

When I was little I was a good child I never acted up or misbehaved when I was with my parents. Simply because I knew what was going to come to me, though that never really happened but still having the impending fear of well being spanked really kept me in line and I'm a better person okay sure I have quite a mouth but I'm a teen what do you expect. Of course I'm spoiled, I'm an only child but I know not to act that way in front of people even my friends. Unlike most people my age.

Anyways I think parents shouldn't be afraid to spank their kids if they misbehave just do it when you're at home. But that's just me. Of course I don't think parents don't care, their just afraid on the consequences. I mean I was reading in my psychology book before school ended in May and I believe it said something that hitting your kid is child abuse or something like that. I don't remember, anyways I think parents should spank the kid once and if the kid keeps misbehaving then threaten to do it...well maybe threaten might not be the best word maybe pretend to hit them..it ought to work..because well it's classical conditioning..but then again that's just me.

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LichGRIFFIN

i think discipline is a very important matter ,with no order there will be no fear of the rules and children would just simply break the rules ,but of course the rules i'm talking about is not an unfair harsh ones or ones that was made to make children grow up in totally similar ways to their parents because if that happened they won't create a personality of their own so best rules that gives enough space to the child to grow up ,i have seen fathers who they are REALLY scared of their children(after they grow up) because their children disrespected them from their early childhood due to lack of discipline yet i have seen the opposite of the case because of the existence of discipline

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