Thread: Disposable Family

i dont know if disposable is the right word. your grandmother clearly has problems, and you should never disown someone, no matter what happens, uless they like kill another family member, in which case theyd be locked up anyways.

you just need to go on with your life and not worry about it

i agree i mean why let family that has shunned you make you feel
guilty? i have the same problem pretty much but i just go on with life
not letting them bother me. infact its been years since i have seen
a few family members i thought i was close with but i didn't let bother
me because if they wanted to talk i am here if not there loss. you should
think the same way.

You're actually supose to love and respect your family, but if they don't love and respet you they're not really acting like a family themselfs, are they?
Just act towards them as they act towards you, but just try not be the reason they're acting that way towards you.

Originally Posted by Count Saint Germain

Just act towards them as they act towards you, but just try not be the reason they're acting that way towards you.

I don't think that is going to make the situation any better.
If you do that, then your just bringing yourself down the their level and your just as bad.

If you have done nothing wrong, then don't worry about it. Just act normal. You still have your family that cares for you, so that's all that matters. I had the same sort of issue with my grand mother once, I just ignored it and kept going on with my life.

If you are sure that you have done nothing wrong, then it is them who have the problem. Acting the same way to them, as they treat you will just agrevate things further, and prove their point.

Well I guess you do have a point, but what if they treat you like Cinderella's stepmother and -sisters treated her?

well I am presuming here, that she? lives away from the family that are giving her that sort of problem (by saying that they haven't called her) am I right?. So I doubt that they are treating her like Cinderella's stepmum was lol.
But either way, you bite back, your just as bad

I'm actually taking about any family's problem, not one in particular.
Ever heard the expresion "An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth"?
If you ask me it comes down to the same thing, if your family disrespects you, why aren't you allowed to disrespect them?
I'm not talking about small things, like your dad getting mad because you didn't take out the trash. I'm talking about senceless things like your mom being mad because came out as a boy not a girl.(I don't think I'd like to comunicate with someone like that.)